i am 27 years old nad have a son turning 2yearsin 4 months time, and w want a second child before this first one turns 3. is it bad...??


Sarah - posted on 12/11/2012




Depends on if you are in a good situation to have another or not. People space their children in many different ways. There is no right or wrong way, just as long as you are able to provide for that child as that child should be provided for. If you can't then you need to wait until you can as then that is not being fair to the child, and you are putting your wants ahead of the child's needs.

Letty - posted on 12/11/2012




I'm 20 years old n I have 2 children.. ones 3 and one is 3 months..

Why would it be bad to have your bbys close in age?


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PATIENCE - posted on 12/12/2012




thank you all, my biggest worries is my family..they still treat me like a small girl.. though um married they say i must first start working(um a stay home mom and hubby brings in enough income for our family) or atleast wait a little more years they say william is still young to have a younger sibling... , especially my uncles and my aunts. um worried about the way they will look at us or just pull away from me. they still believe i am still young,something they said when i got married( 23) now um 27..phweee!!

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