I am a single mother of two handsome boys (4 yrs old and 7 mos old). Their father and I had a 5 yr relationship and we just are going in two different paths in life. So here the story! I met my new guy pie in high school about 14 yrs ago. He claims he had a crush on me then but didn't say anything until about 3 yrs ago. I wasn't taking him seriously because he was so shy. His sister, mother and I are cool so he would send msgs through his sis( cute huh? lol). Anywho, on his birthday this year, I, being the nice person that I am, wished him a hbd and it started from there. A few days later we decided to start a relationship(so far so good) but we dont spend any time together because I have a overly strict grandmother and when I ask her to watch my boys for a few hours, she catches an attitude like I just asked her to buy me a brand new car or something......All I want is a few hours at least once or twice a week to enjoy his company. Oh btw I am 28 yrs old. I don't want to miss out this man because I have actually started to feel love in my heart for him and he has confessed the same for me. How the heck do I work this whole situation out? I NEED HELP and FAST!!!!!


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Morgan - posted on 02/03/2013




find a friend who is willing to help out or hire a nanny for a few hours its less than 50$... but you are old enough to make "adult time" and i feel as if grandma doesnt appreciate it... explain to her it could be time to spend with her grandchildren... wish you the best of luck

Sarah - posted on 02/02/2013




So are you still with your children's father? Do you guys still live together or date?

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