i am scared

Heather - posted on 10/04/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )

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i am scared that me and my boyfriend are falling apart. I havent seen him in almost a month. i am always mad. i just had a baby 6 weeks ago and feel i think that my bad moods and me wanting to fight with my sons dad is fun? why do i feel this way? anyone have any ideas? i love him but dont know why i am doing this

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Barbara - posted on 10/04/2009

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I agree it hormones but some of it could be that your scared and with could reason. Im a single mom of 5 cause my ex husband likes his girlfriend more than me. I was terrified. Create a support system around you cause your never alone. Using Circle of Moms has been awesome for me. Try going on a date night with him, force yourself to dress up even if its just to go to the park for walk. You need to try and create time for each other and family time. My favorite thing to do is blare Miley Cyrus while I get ready always puts me in a great mood. Dorky as it maybe. I hope this helps

Jessica - posted on 10/04/2009

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it's hormones...I went through a similar period w/ my hubby, where I was just grumpy (honestly I was a bitch). It will pass, it takes a while to level out after having a baby, especially if your breastfeeding. Just try to be positive as much as possible & watch movies or do things that make you happy. Do that especially before you talk to or see him, so you can be in a little bit of a better mood.

Could you also be harboring some resentment for him not being around as much in the past month & helping you with the baby??? (just an idea & I apologize if I've crossed a line)

Jessica - posted on 10/04/2009

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it's hormones...I went through a similar period w/ my hubby, where I was just grumpy (honestly I was a bitch). It will pass, it takes a while to level out after having a baby, especially if your breastfeeding. Just try to be positive as much as possible & watch movies or do things that make you happy. Do that especially before you talk to or see him, so you can be in a little bit of a better mood.

Could you also be harboring some resentment for him not being around as much in the past month & helping you with the baby??? (just an idea & I apologize if I've crossed a line)

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