i am struggling and not knowing what i can do.

Lucy - posted on 02/21/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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can someone else help me understand how do I cope not having my children. it is now almost 7 years, since my oldest son was taken in to care, the reason being was I took him on the day of his immunisations to the gp and also to this noticed there was bruising coming and going. I then reported this and asked the gp. also the health visitor did state b4 as well. that babies roll and get bruises when we expect them not to, sent me home with my son following immunisations. I then got a knock at the door from the health visitor asking me 2 take my son 2 the gp 4 an examination and then from then he went 2 the hospital.
from this day I have never forgotten it and its like a bad dream I cant wake up from but the hospital discovers my son had several fractured bones. I cant explain how they got there, my son was taken straight in to care, although I do not agree 4 my son being removed from me children's services did the right thing if I'm honest as I was living with a man who i never doubted would of hurt my son until i left him over 4 years ago.
I am devastated I get to see my son every other weekend because I was pregnant with my second son while investigation was on going he was taken in to care from 3 days old. I have never been trusted with these 2 children but I am know married and have another baby who I past assessment's with as well I miss my children so much. I do not know what else I can do to get them home, I have done everything what children's services expect of me and have gold stars but because grand parents have special guardianship orders which I have to respect what else can I do. my son was premature by 5 weeks I did not have the best healthy pregnancy and I have found out know that family history is not great but this doesn't make any difference if m honest if I went on Jeremy Kyle and cleared my name I would not get my kids home. I just want 2 stop the pain, does anyone know what else i can do or if social services can even supply me a social worker I'm 24 though. what can I do I am at a loss and the pain hurts more now then it did when I found out almost 7 years ago.

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Lucy - posted on 02/22/2013

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Thank you for your support. I have spoken with my solicitor, but its a case as because the court could not decide between me or my ex partner I will live with this above me for the rest of my days. I just wondered if any body else have experience a similar problem and did get their child/children home to where they belonged. The problem I face is that I have my children living with their grandparents and know they have more rights then myself due to having a special guardianship order its making it difficult to make my voice heard.

Shawnteria - posted on 02/21/2013

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Im sorry i dont know what to tell you that can help you witn getting your kids back i just wanted to say your in my prayers and i do hope you'll be with them again soon
Keep your head up it'll work out

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