I didn't know where else to turn..

Jade - posted on 09/21/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi ladies,

I'm really new here and only joined a few hours ago. I'm desperate for advice. I'm 19 and have an 8 month old son with my ex boyfriend who is 24. We had a great relationship before I fell pregnant and was together for 2 years, however after I got pregnant he cheated on me over 7 times (that I know of) and eventually left me for a woman with 3 children. After my son was born he came back around and has been a reasonably good dad. A few months ago he told me that he always regrets how badly he treated me and asked if we could get back together and stupidly, hoping that we could be a family I said yes. We started having sex and was using the withdrawal method which failed and now im pregnant again and iv been dumped, again.
My ex is now saying he wants to live a single life but wants me to keep the baby, a part of me wants to too but I'm worried about what my family will say as they know how much he hurt me in the past and will be disappointed that I went back there and also as to how people will view me as a single mum 19 to two kids under 2 and also how will I ever find love again...I know iv been stupid and naive but please help ladies.

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Jade - posted on 09/22/2013

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Thank you Diana for your response. Its true what you say about embarrassment not comparing to guilt. I think I would probably always be wondering what this other child would have been like and regret it for a long time if not forever

Diana - posted on 09/21/2013

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Also there are a lot of good mmen that love children and want families don't let that stop you

Diana - posted on 09/21/2013

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Well what do you meen keep the baby if your talking about abortion please don't i know there are a lit of people that like to talk but i promise you know imberrasment would compare to the guilt and shame that comes with abirtion however if you don't want another baby there are thousands of people that have not been blessed with the ability to have there own children and you could give them the most precious gift of all i will be praying for you good luck

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