"I don't want you around!"

Nikkita - posted on 09/12/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I am the second of four girls. My older sister, 23, and I live together in the city where I attend college. I will be going home, to my parents' house (4+ hours away) to have my baby. My older sister and I don't get along too well to begin with, and she tries to distance herself from the family almost as much as possible, aside from when she needs something. She does a LOT of things that I don't like and don't approve of. She treats me & the family like sh*t, but wants to pretend to be all excited about my baby. I HATE her fakeness! Is it wrong to not want her around my child?

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do what YOU think is best for you and your child. It's all about you and your child now...no one else. If you don't like something, fix it.....like, give your sis the boot!!

Nikkita - posted on 09/12/2009

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JUST TO CLEAR THINGS UP...We don't live together by choice. Our parents pay our rent b/c I'm in school. So, I don't have a choice but to stay here.

BeautyTofly - posted on 09/12/2009

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No it is not because as a mom our main job is to protect our baby from anyone and anything and if she is like that now i doubt the baby would bring change

Melanie - posted on 09/12/2009

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I have a sister that thinks the world ows her everything. The whole fam has alwasy just put up with it. She is very judgementle and selfish. When i was 18wks preg my two dogs attacked my 6mth old kitten i jumped a fence to get into the yard to try and save her, one of the dogs turned on me, my kitten (who i had had since the day she was born) died in my arms on the way to the vet. I ended up in hospital having contractions. My baby is now about to turn 5mths old. But needless to say my husband and i made the choice to give the dogs to the pound as there was no way i was risking my child or any other child that comes to my yard. Anyway my sister gave me such a hard time about it saying im so cruel. She also made me cry on my wedding day. I have always just put up with it. then about a month after i gave my dogs away she gave her dog away because he kept getting out and she couldnt be bothered to try and stop him. (but that was ok she didnt do anything wrong but i did) Then she borrowed a heap of money of my parents and pretty much forced them to go garentour on her house loan (my mum and dad have never been able to say no to her) my dad is about to lose his job as the company is going under. My dad asked if they could pull out of going garentour as they have already done it for her once and could not someone from her husbands family do it. Well that was it, she went nuts at them. She wouldnt pay back the money she ows them and all sorts of dramas. I then stuck up for my parents and told her to pull her head in. then i was just a nasty B@#ch so i then though enough is enough she is not someone i want my daughter to know. She has never see a photo of my daught and does not know anything about her she did not even get told that my daughter was born. The big kick in all of this is that my sister shouldnt be judging anyone since she doesn't even know who that father of her 2 1/2 year daughter is. She just told the guy she was with at the time that the baby was his (they are now married and he still had no idea that the child may not be his) she does nothing but live a lie yet she is the first to judge someone else.

Tara - posted on 09/12/2009

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if you dont approve of her lifestyle then why do you live with her?? just wondering that being said I would find a new place to live and let her do her own thing and only worry about you and your child

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