I'm 20, have a 14 month old and want another baby

Vanessa - posted on 05/19/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )




tell me weather you think its a good idea, I have the most WONDERFUL little girl who means the world to me and her father (whom I can barely keep my hands off of ;) )and I have been talking about having another baby( it was such an amazing experience for us both we we're both extremely happy!) but on the down side, we don't live alone just us, I will be starting school in August (pregnancy permitting) and we are getting Married in May 2010 and I will NOT be pregnant for our wedding pictures!!! (call me selfish but NO! no fatty wedding pictures for me!) if I get pregnany before our wedding we will change the date but I don't want to live with his mom when the next baby is born!!!!


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LeeAnn - posted on 05/19/2009




Honestly, I would wait until you are done with school and have your own place. It will be much easier and less stressful that way. Not to mention, it's easier having 1 potty trained before having another.

Katrina - posted on 05/19/2009




Hello, i agree dont be pregnant when getting married and living with the in-laws NO WAY that would suck...........!! U have a good time before you get married so u could start trying now but it might also be good to wait till you guys are married and have a fantastic day and honeymoon then start trying asap........!! And in the mean time you guys can look for a place to live before wedding and next baby! U are young so you have plenty of time.

Crystal - posted on 05/19/2009




hi, i have a 15 month old little boy my husband and i decided to try for another baby thinking it would take a bit of trying i am now 4 weeks away from giving birth to another baby boy. if you feel you and your body is ready for another bub i say its a good idea.

Jessica - posted on 05/19/2009




Hi there, I think if you want another baby now is good time to start trying as the age gap would be perfect. Sounds like thats what you want. You could start flat hunting and perhaps rent a little 2 bedroom place somewhere close by.

I am with you on the whole not wanting to be pregnant at your wedding. I am getting married in October 2010 and also don't want to be a pregnant bride so I am hoping I get pregnant really really soon. The older baby is the better. Might even be old enuf to be flower girl or ring bearer or something. Anyway sounds like you know what you want and I say go for it.

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