I'm 23 with 4 children

Tia - posted on 06/03/2009 ( 12 moms have responded )

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I was 17 when I had my first child Hunter who is now 5, 19 when I had my second Kirstin who is now 3 but almost 4, 21 when I had my third Autumn who is now 2 and 23 when I had my fourth Cameron who is now 5 months.

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Sarah - posted on 06/04/2009

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I say if you are happy then thats all that matters, it doesnt matter at the end of the day what ppl think about u, just as long as you are coping and you are able to support them emotionally & financially!

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ShaTerra - posted on 06/04/2009

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Quoting Ashley:

its really hard not to have support from your family. i dont know what i would do without my mom and my sister. we talk everyday and they are always there for me. i wish you luck!



I honestly dont feel it is. I've been fine without them. I just wish they'd stop givin me hell so I can move on with my life peacefully. My son and future children do not need to grow up around their negativity but thank you

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Me too! Well, I will have 4. Am due in October with #4 and will still be 23. Started when I was 19 so my oldest will be 4 in September. I like being a young mom and having them close together. They are great friends :)

Christy - posted on 06/04/2009

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I feel like a whiner....I'm 26 with an 18 month old and I am freaking out about how I'm going to deal with her and my new baby..due in 3wks.

Ashley - posted on 06/04/2009

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its really hard not to have support from your family. i dont know what i would do without my mom and my sister. we talk everyday and they are always there for me. i wish you luck!

ShaTerra - posted on 06/04/2009

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Thats very true but I still get grief from my parents especially my mom. Me and her have never gotten along and NEVER will. We have the worst relationship and always have since I was younger. She just does not like to see me happy and really works hard to make my life a living hell so she's basically the only one I'm worried about causing me a hard time cuz she's done that so well my whole life.

Ashley - posted on 06/04/2009

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i got a lot of grief from people about having my first at 17. but i graduated high school with honors and ive always supported myself and my son. people dont talk anymore because they see how well i can do. my son went to kindergarten this year and i went to my first semester of college.i passed with all a's and i can nothing but good comments and how proud they are of me. as long as you try your hardest the things people say dont matter

ShaTerra - posted on 06/04/2009

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Quoting Emma:

WOW!! you're a gun!! How do u cope with so many kids!! Im 20 with a 9 month old girl and shes a handful!


I agree. I'm pregnant with my second one and wondering how I'm gonna deal with the nagging and things from friends and family about me being 21 with 2 kids. Not that I care but I could deal with the unnecessary stress. I was 18 when I had my son and he's 2 now. So how do you cope with what ppl say and think about that? I now have a fiance and he's so great with helping me with my son. He's so excited about his own and so am I because I was a single mom.

Ashley - posted on 06/04/2009

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thats a lot of work! i thought my six year old (who just graduated kindergarten) was a handful!

Tiff - posted on 06/03/2009

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I have a six year old, four year old, two year old and a seven month old. I am twenty three years old

Emma - posted on 06/03/2009

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WOW!! you're a gun!! How do u cope with so many kids!! Im 20 with a 9 month old girl and shes a handful!

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