I'm 24 and I want to tie my tubes should I ?

Victoria - posted on 01/12/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have two kids a 6 yr and 3 yr old and I have been married for five yrs I feel like I really should and I told my husband and he said he care that I want to do it but its not worth fighting over so with that I feel like its not important to him and that he doesn't want more kids so I need help should I or shouldn't I tie them?

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Victoria - posted on 01/14/2013

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No he won't do it. He says if I want to do that them I can cause its my body but he will never do it. I'm going to my doctors Tuesday so I can talk to her and see what she thinks.

Iona - posted on 01/14/2013

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Getting your tubes done has a lot of side effects but for the man there are only two. What about your husband doing it? Then if you change your mind he can get it reversed. That worked for my husband and I. We had four kids before we turned 28. So felt it was enough. My doctor advised against me having the operation because of the possible side effects and me being young. So my husband did it. Only 15 min and he could even drive himself home.

Victoria - posted on 01/13/2013

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Well I have been on all different kind of brith control I did the pill the shot and the iud none help my body didn't take to good to them.I think I really want to do this is because I'm the oldest out of 6 and I saw how hard it was for my parents to support us and I don't want to do that to my kids right now my kids have every thing and I work hard every day my husband has two jobs we don't really see much of each other let alone do much as a family plus I don't feel like he wants more. I don't know I was 17 when I had my first and 21 with my second and I thought if we were going to have more i wanted to this year but he said no and I don't want to be so use to not having a baby and then here comes one and he won't be happy you know.

Carmella - posted on 01/12/2013

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why do you want to tie your tubes? what about birth control? I am 28 and have a 3 year old and 9 year old. I think I'm done having kids . I'm using mirena birth control. It is a little insert that goes inside your uterus for 5 years . I have my up and down's about it. but I'm thinking about what i'll do when I get it out... never thought about getting my tubes tied though. maybe you should talk to your doctor?

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