I'm about to be homeless and I've got twins on the way...

XaZiera - posted on 09/28/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am behind on rent due to my landlords inability to cash a check when he said he would...but nonetheless i am behind, and I have talked them into giving me as much time as they possibly could, but me forgetting I had an electric bill to pay thought I would have the money, and after my 250 electric bill I don't have money to pay to back owed rent. My twins are going to come ANYday now probably and I can't be homeless and take my babies "home." I need help and all these government assitance programs require you to already be homeless or have some sort of legal papers {which would cost the landlord more money and then i would have to pay those fees I have been informed}. I just don't know what to do. I have myself, my babies coming, my fiance', his mother and his three younger sisters at my house. He is the only one working at a fast food place barely making enough to pay the cost of living now much less paying extra for rent that was already supposed to have been paid.

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Megan - posted on 09/28/2012

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Dont give up and try not to stess. Have your fiance look for a second Job. What about his mother disability does she earn any disability if not yall should look into getting her goveernment support to help.

XaZiera - posted on 09/28/2012

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The three sisters aren't old enough to work. And the mother is disabled. And Megan im on wic and I don't have any family that can or would help. Iv tried to get assistance but again you've got to already be homeless here to get anything done.

Codi - posted on 09/28/2012

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I'm sorry to hear about this. But what you need to understand, that unless all of these people you have living with you are all disabled and not able to work, then they can get up off their asses and help.

Stop being so nice to them and tell them to help you.

What's important to you?

Your babies having a home or you working your ass off to provide a home, food, etc. to a bunch of deadbeats.

If they are not willing to help you, you may have to what is best for your BABIES and find some place to go, like a woman's shelter or family member's...you may not be able to bring your fiance', or the rest of the crew, but it is not about them.

Megan - posted on 09/28/2012

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I am so sorry to hear about your situation, it must be stressful and worrisom to have this on your sholders when about to give birth to your twins. The stress isn't good for the babies, try to stay as calm as you can. Have you checked with any other family members about loaning money, or doing a car title loan, checking with a church in the area for donations or help? If money is tight have you gotten yourself set up with WIC or goverment support not just for homless but assistance? I wish i could help you and i will be praying for you.

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