I'm never in the mood. Has anyone gone through this and found a solution?

Sam - posted on 07/16/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




In every long term relationship I've ever had, I lost interest in having sex with my significant other. There wasn't a set time limit or anything, but it did happen every time. Then when I'd meet the next guy, it'd be great in the bedroom for a while and then start all over again.

I've been married for 3 years and I love my husband and want to always be with him. But it's happened again! I don't think we've had sex in a year or more. Whenever he tries to 'get me in the mood' I feel awkward and ticklish and I totally don't get it. I don't have a problem 'taking care of myself" if you know what I mean. I do that like, once a week. I don't want it to be this way. I feel like we're missing out on something that all couples in love have. It's so weird now, I don't see how I can fix this. I don't see how this could be a medical problem because like I said everything is great for me in new relationships.

If anyone has been through this and turned things around, please help. I've puzzled over this for years and years and I have never found a solution.


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Melissa - posted on 07/21/2012




I think you two need a getaway! A romantic vacation with just the two of you! Reignite the spark! :)

Stifler's - posted on 07/16/2012




Maybe you need to try something different thing do get monotonous with the same person after a while.

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