I'm new here?????

Lola - posted on 11/14/2012 ( 36 moms have responded )

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Hey I'm new to circle of moms and I was wondering if there is any moms on right now that would be up for a chat I'd kill for a conversation with another adult right now.any mother preferably with young children that can spare 5 minutes and talk to me any takers at all????

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Aisha - posted on 03/04/2013

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I haven't been on this site for a good while and I cant figure out how to work anything on here. I am looking for other working parents that could relate to some of the similar issues that occurs. I am married and have children so my time is crazy.

Janise - posted on 12/22/2012

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Hi Lola,
Welcome to Circle of Mom. I'm new as well. Just joined a month ago. I have 21 month old twin boys.

Janise

Theresa - posted on 12/12/2012

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Hi im new as well. Just joined coupled day ago. I have two boys. One is 4 years old and the other is gonna be 9 months on the 22nd.

Lydia - posted on 12/04/2012

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I can't wait to take my kids to see Santa either! Brycen wasn't too fond of him last year, but we have been showing him pictures and trying to explain who he is and what he does this year haha

Jennifer - posted on 12/04/2012

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Hello Ladys... Great that everyone its doing good. Oh i cant wait to take picture with santa, well Liana cant wait also. We are going to New York next week and we going to take santa picture with santa at Macys over there. Mami Life is good i dont see myself not being a mom, mami, mama, mami jennifer like Liana calls me lol

Lola - posted on 12/04/2012

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I'm great Adurinas great laughing and smiling as pure usual it's almost bath and bed time she's just eating now it's 5:30 here :)

Lydia - posted on 12/03/2012

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The kids are doing great! Brycen is always playing and laughing and giving his sister hugs and kisses and Addisyn is smiling now and trying to laugh :)

Mommy life is great!

Sorry it took me so long I work nights! haha

How are you guys?

Lola - posted on 12/03/2012

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Hey! Yeah I'm great,Audrinas great,we're getting our picture taken with Santa in the shops today :) Bus busy busy but were good.how r u??

Jennifer - posted on 12/03/2012

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Hi Lydia, im Jennifer how are you and how you doing? How its mami life going for you> busy busy!!!! lol

Lydia - posted on 12/03/2012

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Hi Girls! I'm Lydia, I'm 23 and I have a 2 year old boy and a 3 month baby girl :) I'm new here too!

Lola - posted on 11/30/2012

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Thank you I know I'm having a lovely day I went to Brooklands Tavern with my mum,dad,sister,nanna,sisters boyfriends sisters boyfriends dad and Audrina,Audrina had so much fun she made a big mess everywhere but she had lots to eat everyone making her smile she was so happy! It was adorable everyone playing with her in her highchair making funny faces it was such a good time just got back I'm stuffed lol had so much great food and I feel sorry for the people who had to clean up all the food she dropped on the floor lol it's so funny!!

Julie - posted on 11/30/2012

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First off . Happiest wishes today. May God continue to bless you and guide you into all his destined for your life. cheer up another year of life has just started thank God for the number 21. your going to be alright I understand the mixed feelings and by tomorrow they would be many other different feelings to compete with those of today.

Lola - posted on 11/30/2012

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I'm good Julie,it's actually my 21st birthday today do is great it's a mixed feeling really lol on one hand I already feel more mature than most 21 year olds I meet but on the other it's still odd I feel so old lol!

Heather - posted on 11/30/2012

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Hello, ladies. I'm 23 soon to be 24 years young, and I have a 3 year old. I'm also a ''Stay at home mom''. I love it. There are days where it's awful, but then my daughter talks to me, and makes me laugh. It's like she knows mommy is upset, or sad, and she tries everything in her power to make me happy. I only get out of the house for Doctors visits, or to pay bills and buy groceries, so I understand the whole ''stir crazy'' feeling. I am currently waiting to find out if I'm actually pregnant again, or if it's just a scare.. I'm on the fence about having another baby though. A part of me feels like it would take away from my daughter, then another part of me is scared about being able to handle it. I know I want another child at some point, I'm just not sure now would be the right time.

Julie - posted on 11/30/2012

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Sounds like you just had a baby ..made me laugh cause I know how much we can crave a conversation with someone other than our kids.. Welcome to circle of moms ...I just saw this so am just responding. How are you doing ?

Caroline - posted on 11/15/2012

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Hi Lola only getting a chance 2 check tis nw hehe mammies day never over... Australia big time differences 2 Ireland haha wasn't sure where every1 was from

Lola - posted on 11/15/2012

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You'll be find your a momma your strong good luck you can do it!! I'm here if you ever wanna chat!

Jennifer - posted on 11/15/2012

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Thaks...

I agree with you, i thnk its time for me to put my big girls panties on and do whats best for me and my little one. I just have to find out the right way to do thing, right moment and just go. Good Luck to me!!!

Lola - posted on 11/15/2012

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You need to do as you said and that's what best for her daughter you need to leave if that's what's gonna male you happy because happy mom = happy baby if he really wants to be a part of his kids like still he will make sure he comes sees her/supports her me and Audrianas father arent together and she is the happiest little girl she is 6 mo and she smiles so much it makes her eyes squint loo it's so cute.she doesn't miss out her father and I are friends we get along great we hang out with her togther once a week! She spends two days a week with her dad and she has a blast we will both make sure she is always there for her and he gives me 350 a week in child support.if I was you I'd move your family will help you and your daughter and she will be happier.Its your decision and if your husband is willing or end your marriage that abruptly then I think it may end either way don't let him control you and I don't mean that nastily.do what's best for you!

Jennifer - posted on 11/15/2012

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I have talk to him and he said: if i go we would no longer be together. i sounds like he dont care if i grow was a person, i have two degree and need to go out and do what i love to do. but then what would happen to my marriage? dont know. Everyone tells me that same thing your telling me Lola, but it seems like i can never take the final step to leave. i love my husband but i love my Liana more, and i need to find out what would be best for her, stay here with us two or leave and go to a place that she would also grow was a little person (lol)

I talk to my family and they tell me the same to go and they will help get my life back on track.

Why the hell i can just leave and do whats best for me? DONT KNOW, THIS SUCKS BIG TIME!!!!

Lola - posted on 11/15/2012

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I would move back home if you want to get out and do something and it would be good for your daughter to get yous to being around other kids! If you stay your going to go stur crazy you deserve to have a job like your husband does if it was me I would move for sure! But it's something you need to talk about with your husband,tell him how you feel and how your stressed! It sounds like you need a break! You should make your husband watch her on the weekend and go out!!

Jennifer - posted on 11/15/2012

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LOL....

I do need Wine, not a glass but Bottle of wine. I been up since 6 wiht Liana, Husband left to work at 3am so im the only one that gets up with her during the night, feeeling like i should have done more in life just tired of sitting here on my butt all day. I do have something i would like to ask for everyone?

Im at fort bragg, yes they have daycare here for the kids (we have to pay) and the jobs that i have found if i take it i would end up working for long hours and most of my paycheck will go for the daycare, so i desided to stay home untill liana go to school next september. However back home in NY, i have had multiple jobs offer and with a larger pay check coming in, i would be able to pay the day care and a family member would be able to pick her up after a few hours of her being in the daycare and take care of her. THIS IS MY QUESTION?? dont know what to do saty here or go back home?? we do need money fast and i feel like i need to make a desicion fast

Lola - posted on 11/15/2012

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Awh Jen are you okay? How are you and the bubs sounds like you need to out your feet up lay back with a glass of wine Bamako your husband do some work and have a chat with a fello mum aka me haha :)

Jennifer - posted on 11/15/2012

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Easy!!!! I dont even remember what easy means. Anyway i feel sometimes like i complaint a

lot but then im like hell no!!!! this is hard im so young but at the same time old. if i want things to get done i need to do them myself, like taking out the trash. Today feel like im over it, Over what???? House, husband everything... just need a BREAK

:(

Lola - posted on 11/14/2012

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I'm from Perth,Western Australia,I am sorry for the late reply as it is 1:07AM here and I am tryin to clean up and get everything ready for tomorrow so I can hopefully get a bit of sleep tonight as Audrina just woke up and was a bit fussy about a hour ago I've just gotten her back to sleep (thank god) and I know right sleep time is anything but peaceful in my house I have to wash the dishes do the laundry go over the books for my business really quick as my sister is super busy with her 2 kids and newborn and we like to look over I atleast once a month then it time to clean up the mess Audrinas made and then check on here if I'm lucky then I can sit down for 5 minutes until she wakes up lol.mummys lives are anything but "easy" as so many think!

Caroline - posted on 11/14/2012

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We sure do :) it's a never ending job even when Annabelle goes 2 bed its time 2 get all the things u cannt get done when she's up :) where are u from I'm living in westmeath Ireland

Lola - posted on 11/14/2012

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Hello,I'm a stay at home mum too I partly own a business with my sister so between Audrina and g sure everything goes smoothly there I can always find somethin to do although I must admit sometimes I do feel stur crazy watching Peppa Pig and listening to goo goo gaah gaah all day long lol between dirty laundry dirty nappys baby talking food being thrown on the floor we all go a little crazy now and then don't we? lol

Caroline - posted on 11/14/2012

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Hi Lola n Jennifer I'm 27 n my little lady Annabelle has jt started walking so emotional n finding it hard been pregnant its not goin well :( I'm at home full time at the mo but work in child care .

Jennifer - posted on 11/14/2012

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Hi Ladys... Im 25 and my princess is 3..... What you ya do all day??? im a stay at home mom FOR NOW!!! and im getting bored and tired and crazy lol joke!

Lola - posted on 11/14/2012

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Hello how are you? And thats so exciting so close to having a new little one :D I am Lola I'm 20 I have a 6 month old her names Audrina :)

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