i need a hobby!!

Tiffany - posted on 10/15/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )

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i have been thinking the past few weeks about what i do in my life and i kinda scared my self. im a mum of 2 gorgeous kids, i have 2 ever so cute dogs, and a bf i adore, but thats it. that is what my life consists of and it scares me. all i do is take care of my family and go on facebook. i dont want everyday day to be the same i want excitement, i want to have an interest, i want to become a fan of something, i want to be young again (im only 21 but i fell about 60 haha). i no theres more to life than what im doing now, i just need a nudge in the right direction...........xx

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Quoting Tiffany :

Ashley i dont really have any friends either, i have 3 old school friends, 1 who has moved to spain, 1 who is at university and the other who is engaged/ at university/ works, so they all lead different lives to me. its quite sad really because there opinion on fun is very different to mine haha. April i like to cook (got quite good at that since i have all the practise) erm i dont really have a clue what i like! haha. thats quite worrying. oooo i like dancing with the kids, we make up lots of dance moves (the kids are better than me though haha) i like music and the kids are the same. if you have any ideas on that (sorry its abit vague) please feel free write back. thanks everyone for your comments xxx



What about doing an exercise program that includes dancing with your kids? Then you can teach them fitness and have fun by doing those moves..



This is a good one:



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I have both of these and do it with my 3 yr old and 8 yr old.. its fun!





April

Tiffany - posted on 10/15/2009

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i might have a go at decorating my bedroom, it hasnt been done in four years and its looking a bit old now :0) haha. but keep your comments coming il have it finished in a week. haha xx

Tiffany - posted on 10/15/2009

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Ashley i dont really have any friends either, i have 3 old school friends, 1 who has moved to spain, 1 who is at university and the other who is engaged/ at university/ works, so they all lead different lives to me. its quite sad really because there opinion on fun is very different to mine haha. April i like to cook (got quite good at that since i have all the practise) erm i dont really have a clue what i like! haha. thats quite worrying. oooo i like dancing with the kids, we make up lots of dance moves (the kids are better than me though haha) i like music and the kids are the same. if you have any ideas on that (sorry its abit vague) please feel free write back. thanks everyone for your comments xxx

Amanda - posted on 10/15/2009

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i do alot of crafts and self decorateing arround the house its always changeing and i dont spend alot in doing it sometimes its just as simple as rearangeing things you allready have

Tsema - posted on 10/15/2009

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hi, tiffany, i get how u feel, but remember you are not gonna be taking care of those children for long make the best of it and enjoy it, i think the privilege of being abble 2 take care of your kids yourself and teach them values and things of importance is priceless. like i said enjoy it while it lasts, be thankful for being a mom. you coulld also join a group in your community, i am sure there are lots of them looking 4 volunteers, basically look around. if you are a christian join a group there are lots of things to keep u busy when u r with a group and u get to meet pple with similar interests hope i was able to help. take care

Tsema - posted on 10/15/2009

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hi, tiffany, i get how u feel, but remember you are not gonna be taking care of those children for long make the best of it and enjoy it, i think the privilege of being abble 2 take care of your kids yourself and teach them values and things of importance is priceless. like i said enjoy it while it lasts, be thankful for being a mom. you coulld also join a group in your community, i am sure there are lots of them looking 4 volunteers, basically look around. if you are a christian join a group there are lots of things to keep u busy when u r with a group and u get to meet pple with similar interests hope i was able to help. take care

Ashley - posted on 10/15/2009

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i know how you feel! i have a husband, daughter and another child on the way.. i dont really even have any friends. and all i do is go on facebook lol. im only 22 but i feel the same way. your not alone!

Amanda - posted on 10/15/2009

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Do your kids go to daycare during the day? If so, find another mom or friend that stays at home during the day and just go out and walk around. I constantly go downtown to just walk around and go in quirky shops. I also really like to paint or do any type of creative thing. Whether it be revamping a piece of furniture I already have or painting something to hang in my boys room or my room.

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