I need answers for why I can't carry my baby through to full-term

Vikki - posted on 03/13/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Does anyone know of any tests to get done after having a stillborn then a miscarriage?
I got chromosone testing for me, but not for my hubby. Doctor says there is nothing else she can offer me.
I think my hubby should get testing or some sort of test done. We just want answers on why this has happened to us more than once??

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Liz - posted on 03/19/2013

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Did they do any sort of testing on either of the babies that you lost? Could you call the place that did your chromosome testing and ask them about getting hubby tested? I also don't understand why they don't want to test him. After all, it took both of you to make the baby...

Freya - posted on 03/18/2013

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A friend of mine had her child early at 25 weeks, he passed away a few days later. When she became prenant again last year they examined her cervix and found that it was very thin and not "normal". She decided not to get a stich that would close te cervix during her pregnancy, she ended up having a girl at 25 weeks again but she is healthy and growing.
I wish you the best

Vikki - posted on 03/16/2013

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thats horrible! so sad to hear about that:(
I only had the chromosone test. they told me he didnt need to be tested which i didnt understand. Its so scary trying to have kids. i have a son thats 4 years old, aswell he has a son thats 5 years old and there normal just we lost ours at 5 half months then another one at 6 weeks.

Brittany - posted on 03/15/2013

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one of my good friends had a still born around 5 months then carried her next baby to full term and he died within a day of birth because his spinal cord was outside of his body in a sack and it had never been caught through ultrasounds. she had chromosomal tests done and they said her husband should as well and other than that there isnt much they could do. she did blood work, had her hormones checked and was told to not try again until she could emotionally handle it. ill say a prayer for you and your husband!

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