i need help with my sex drive i've been off depo for 8 months help!

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Audrey - posted on 10/09/2009

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Are you trying to get pregnant? I know one of my friends was on depo & it took her almost 2 years of trying to get preggo.

I would defiantly try things that you haven't...even if it seems stupid or gross. I know I thought I would hate some things--but ended up liking it. Hit up and sex toy store and get something fun..or a video...anything! It's worth a try.

Chelsea - posted on 10/09/2009

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I am on depo and have no sex drive unless I am relaxed with no worries...so whatever relaxes you after the kids are sleeping, with nothing on your mind, or a few glasses of wine :)

Samanthy - posted on 10/09/2009

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Sometimes I lose interest in sex also, and when this happens it frustrates my husband and we always seem to fight more. When I am losing interest in sex I ask my husband if he can give me a night off from watching my son and I go out by myself, whether it's just to go to the grocery store or for a walk. When I come home I draw myself a hot bath with my favorite scent of bubble bath, light some candles, and settle in with a good romance book. When I come out my son is usually asleep, and I get to have a talk with my husband. I ask my husband if there is anything new that he would like to try, and we go from there. My suggestion for you is to just relax and take it one day at a time. Ask your husband or boyfriend if there is anything new that he would like to try in the bedroom, keeping to the same routine night after night gets boring. Try reading some books, if you like to read, that will give you suggestions to spice up your sex life. And I am not trying to get too personal or anything, but sometimes toys can be a great way to renew your sex life. Dont feel pressured. Just experiment and enjoy.

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