I need some advice

Amanda - posted on 06/23/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )




I have three boys and my two oldest are from a previous relationship. We don't have anywhere near an amicable relationship but it's getting to the point where I don't want my kids around him. He speaks to my very rudely and isn't above calling me names whenever he feels like it. I would think that he could handle co-parenting especially since he has a new girlfriend and a new life. I've moved on as well and at this point I don't want to have a good relationship with him but, I do want to be able to act cordial. Any advice on how to deal with him?


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Anna - posted on 06/23/2009




i know kind of how you feel. if he wants access to his kid make sure he has supervised vistes with someone mutual you both know. also get this person to pick and drop them off so you dont have to see him.tht way you know they are safe with him and you dont have to put up with the abues he dishes out to you so the kids dont see how he treats females. my son gets to see his father on wed for two hours at nite and all day sunday at his father pearents house. his pop pickes him up and dropes him of tht way i dont have to see him and get the abuses i use to get from him and it lets me have peace of mind tht marcus is safe with his father at his granparents and he not exposed to the abuses.

Audrey - posted on 06/23/2009




if he cant act cordial and have some respect, especially in front of your kids he doesn't need to see them. the last thing you want is your boys growing up thinking it is ok to talk to you or any other woman that way.

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