i need some advise

Liz - posted on 07/28/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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in the last month and a half, my boyfriend (my sons father) has been going on websites talking to other women, like untrue.com and other ones, he doesnt know that i know, and hes been going on youporn a lot to lately, im not sure what to do. I am 24 years old and he is 38 years old. we used to have sex all the time and now im so tired from taking care of the baby and cleaning n cooking for everyone in the house, by 11pm im ready for bed and he gives me attitude if we dont fool around, im not sure what to do, ive told him we need to do it earlier cause i wont be so tired. also he says he misses the women he fell inlove with, since i dont drink and party no more i guess im not fun. i need some advice if any one can help that would be awesome and appreciated, thanks

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Jodie - posted on 07/30/2012

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Sounds to me like you need to take your baby and head for the hills. Seriously the guy sounds like an ass.. You want your son to grow up with that for a role model?

Liz - posted on 07/29/2012

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he refuses to do house work, if i ask him to help me i either get a grunt or a sigh, then he doesnt do it anyways, even when i ask him to take our son for a bath he grunts and acts like im telling him to mow the lawn, and he spends all his money on tattoo supplies and green stuff, so when ever we do have extra money he alreadys knows what he is spending it on, i come last to everything, for our anniversary we were supposed to go out to dinner, and that didnt happen, he needed tattoo supplies he acts like he tattoos so many people, i think hes off the deep end, hes loosing his dam mind, ugh if i lived in ct where im from i think i would of given him the boot to ass a while ago, but im stuck in md until i come up with some money thanks for helping

Sarah - posted on 07/28/2012

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may be suggest he help you more with the housework and child care or try and get a regular baby sitter e.g. once amonth over night and have some grown up time , do the things you used to do together like , see a film , go for a meal , a walk in the park or snuggling on the settee. hope this helps :)

Sarah - posted on 07/28/2012

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may be suggest he help you more with the housework and child care or try and get a regular baby sitter e.g. once amonth over night and have some grown up time , do the things you used to do together like , see a film , go for a meal , a walk in the park or snuggling on the settee. hope this helps :)

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