I need some second opinions!

Jessi - posted on 11/06/2012 ( 12 moms have responded )

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I am driving myself crazy and want to talk to other moms because I feel kind of alone.



My last period was from September 27-Oct 1st. I had unprotected sex (pull out method) with my boyfriend during that time, and also the weekend before that.

20 Days later (10/21) I start a really strange period during sex with my boyfriend. Bright blood for the first couple of days (not really enough for tampons but I used them-- and I have heavy flows) with a couple of days of brown blood.

Between October 26th through all of this time, I have been feeling nauseous/queasy, emotional, lower cramps, bloated and urinating more often. I took a pregnancy test on the 29th and it was negative.

Considering I still feel this way, and I'm also getting milky discharge, I took another test today and it proved to be negative. My next period is in 11 days! What do you guys think? Should I stop worrying? Could I be pregnant or just PMSing? How did you know?

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Rebecca - posted on 11/06/2012

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could be pregnant I had my period for the first 3 months with my Daughter and a negative test as well as all the other symptoms you mentioned you might need to go into see your doctor to find out for sure

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Kim - posted on 11/15/2012

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Girl , if you miss the next one in 11 days you need to see a dr. You would most likely be pregnant, on the other hand you are stressing a lot about it and that causes you to miss a period sometimes. I just lost a baby January fifth and I was four and a half months along , thought I was maybe two at most . So sweetheart go see your DR and I'm sure that will ease your mind . If you ever need to talk I'm here

Sheena - posted on 11/14/2012

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Your story is that the first that i have heard of this kind. What I don't get is why you would put yourself through so much stress and anxiety not to mention putting a possible unborn child through the same stress and anxiety with no prenatal care for no reason. If you think you are pregnant just go see your doctor thats why we have doctors.

Kristen - posted on 11/14/2012

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Well you have two options... you could call the OBGYN and get a blood test or you can wait the 11 days to see what the next period is like and then go from there. All the symptoms of pregnancy are there but I don't know what to tell you with the two negative tests and the light period...

Keri - posted on 11/11/2012

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I had this happen recently actually. I was having spotting like I did when I was pregnant with my son, I had the brown discharge, I had a week of a "period-like" flow, etc. After the first flow stopped and I was "dry" for a couple days, I took a test. Not pregnant. A few days later it started again. I waited to see what would happen. It stopped, nothing for a few days, so I took a pregnancy test again - not pregnant. About 2-3 days after that I started my regular period and it went on for it's normal 5-7 day span. Maybe wait until you're supposed to have your next period and you're late by a week or so and check again, or go see a doctor.

Sam - posted on 11/09/2012

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I suggest going to your doctor and requesting a blood test! If it still shows up negitive then start having tests done for infections. And as for the pull out method, that does not work!!!! Even pre-cum contains small counts of sperm!!! Hope all turns out for the best!!

Sonia - posted on 11/06/2012

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if your still getting symptoms then i would go to the dr also if your period isn'tlke normal and they say its not your period but mine was just as dark heavy and lasted just as long . to be on the safe side you should get your hormones check just to rule it out.

Jessi - posted on 11/06/2012

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Hey Sonia- its not TMI! We're all ladies here :)

I didn't realize you can get your period while pregnant!



So, should I go to my doctor before my period is supposed to come in 11 days or should I just wait and see?

Sonia - posted on 11/06/2012

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i had a full blown out period for three months blood clots and everything sorry tmi but thats what happend when i was pregnant the first time and my daughter is two now so aything is possible just go to the dr ask for a blood test and i that comes back neg and them to check you hormone levels and see if that is why your having this problem best of luck

Jessi - posted on 11/06/2012

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Oh wow really? Isn't it crazy how different all of our bodies are? I thought at first I was ovulating and these were just super signs of that (around 11-01) but I'm still feeling this way, and having heartburn. I wish I could just skip all these days and know for sure!



If I go see my doctor, will they just give me a urine test?

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