Im 21 and i Think i lost my sex drive after my 2nd baby!

Christina - posted on 10/27/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My daughter evangeline is 6 months.. yay!! lately i find myself not wanting to be sexually active with my partner and before her birth(even during pregnancy) We couldnt get enough of each other. im not completely repulsive about the idea of having sex but its annoying that my husband wants it every night and i want it during the day and maybe only 4 days out of the week. I really want to make him happy so i do it even when i dont want to. Im seriously stressed about having him come home and wanting it. Hes very sensitive and i dont want to hurt his feelings because i literally find myself crying about this lack of sex drive i have. Anyone have the same thing happening or any advice on how to get back on the horse?

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S - posted on 10/28/2013

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Oh ya, these past 3 months were torment for my partner.
I explained to him it wasn't him, it was me and my body (I am expecting), and that I simply wasn't up for it.
I tried to please him in other ways, that way he wasn't back up so to speak, and I didn't have to force myself through sex. Even THIS took some coaxing to myself at first.
I've now started to have a BIT of my drive back but not like before.
I would suggest, going to bed earlier and waking him up with morning sex. That way he gets his share, and you get it over with in the day, bright and early lol.
Let him know you're willing to try every other day, in order to give your vagina a break.
Communicate, that's the best you can do.
=)

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Christina - posted on 10/31/2013

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thank you saiqa for your advice. i just cant seem to get into the mood mentally and sometimes he take quite a while to finish lol ill do that

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