im 23 with 2 kids and expecting another one in jan 2014 but i dont know how to tell anyone because they do not like my baby father. my other kids are from a previous relationship but i dont know what to do. ???

Tanya - posted on 06/14/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Have so many issues going on being a young mother and this has been real difficut for me and it is making it hard for me to be happy during this pregnancy. My family doesn't like him because we r so different people he is very outspoken and will say what's on his mind and my family is not used to it so they always had issues. But now being pregnant with our first child I'm so nervous and scared of what they might say.. what should I do


Claire - posted on 06/14/2013




I don’t think you should let your family take away that happy time of being Pregnant! I was 21 when I first fell pregnant and my parents went mad because they felt I was too young and did not like the father for similar reasons you stated, then three years later I fell pregnant again with my second child (same father) and my family said that they were upset about me being pregnant. I as a result was not as happy as I could have been had the kept there comments to themselves. Now looking back it was all in the past and they love the kids like crazy and could not imagine their lives without them BUT I cant go back and change how I felt at the time. So my advice to you would be to talk to them and tell them how you are feeling and remember at the end of the day, you being happy and enjoying your pregnancy will make both you and your new baby more content.

I hope this helps you; relax and enjoy your pregnancy as it is truly a wonderful gift.

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