Im boring??

Twin - posted on 07/07/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




I've been married for three years and I have 20 month old twins. My husband both teach so we have busy schedules. That means we don't get to see each other that often. The problem is my husband gets home, has dinner and either goes to sleep or goes back to school to do some "extra work". Then on the weekend he also spends most of his time working. Summer comes along and he picks up extra hours or spends his free days sleeping or cruising around in his car. He refuses to take me with him a lot of the time. I'm usually stuck at home taking care of the kids. When we do go out he somehow had a way of making me feel guilty about it. He either talks about how much it's costing him or he says what about the kids. I try to organise nights in and nights out but he usually ends up either with plans or with friends. I feel like he's bored and tired of me and it makes me angry. When I get angry he makes me feel like I'm crazy. Help


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Romecca - posted on 09/23/2014




I agree with Gena. Communication is important. But I also believe (I too am working trying this out, since our marriage became drab), do your own thing. That is what everybody keeps telling me. Once you do your own thing (with or without children) that is when the husband will want your company.

It is the way of the world: We always want what we don't have.

Gena - posted on 07/11/2013




have you tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel? Its not always easy with kids and sometimes we are tierd but i think its important to have family time.Is family time to stressfull for him?You could work on making family time fun..even if its at home. You arent crazy.. maybe you just need to have a good talk to him and ask him how he feels and explain how you feel.

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