im new here!

User - posted on 05/26/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )




hi im new here, i was invited by a friend to join her circle of friends then i clicked yes and found out about this group. to start with, im 26 and a mother of 2 boys ages 5 and 6. i was suppose to have three kids but our daughter the youngest among three kids died january of last year. she had multiple congenital defects like hydrocephalus type 2 and myelomeningocoele.. she had under gone 17 major operations on the head. we did everything to save her, but still she didn't make it.

after a year of grieving for her lost, we are now happy with where she is, and me as a mother, is busy taking care of the boys. i am also working now, to make myself more useful. i am half hearted whether i still want to have a baby or not. first the trauma and fear is there, and that's mainly my reason. any comments or advice please?


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Abbie - posted on 05/26/2009




I am also new here, welcome! I am sorry to hear about your daughter, but you seem to have a great attitude about going forward. This sounds like a tough decision and I will pray for you if that's okay...

Jennifer - posted on 05/26/2009




welcome sorry to hear about your loss glad to see your still buliding ur life for your boys you must have alot of courage

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