im really scared..have u been threw this?

Kelly - posted on 09/02/2009 ( 7 moms have responded )

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i have a 3 year old son and got preg with him just fine and the whole nine months were fine to...we have been trying since jan 2007 to have another baby and since that time i had two miscarriages and now im preg again but still early..has anyone been threw this like me..how do u think positive..because i cant..im always thinking bad things

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Kerri - posted on 09/02/2009

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my daughter is 4 and it took me 3 nd half years to get pregnant and i misscarried then i fell again straight away and miscarried then i had a normal period and then got pregnant and i was like you very scared that it was gunna happen again but it didnt my daughter is now 7 and a half months so i hope this helps you out and try and fink positive though it hard too

September - posted on 09/02/2009

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First things first! Don't be so hard on yourself :) I think that because you are pregnant you need to practice positive thinking. I know that at times that can be hard but think about the baby that is growing inside of you. Your baby feels your stress and your negitive thinking. Relax and let nature take it's course. I'm sure that you will have a wonderful pregnancy! Good luck and best wishes!

Heather - posted on 09/02/2009

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I havent been throught it but my friend has... she got prego on accident with the first, had a miscarriage then had a really tough prego with the second. but she just kept telling herself that if it was meant to be it would happen. And she didnt buy anything till like after her babyshower so she wouldnt be crushed if something did happen. i hope all works out!@

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i have had one miscariage but i know women who have had multipies and they assure me that there is life after miscariage. all the women i know have had success pregnancy after and before their loss. hang in there, just do the best you can do...

Brandy - posted on 09/02/2009

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Quoting kelly:

im really scared..have u been threw this?

i have a 3 year old son and got preg with him just fine and the whole nine months were fine to...we have been trying since jan 2007 to have another baby and since that time i had two miscarriages and now im preg again but still early..has anyone been threw this like me..how do u think positive..because i cant..im always thinking bad things



 



I just recently had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago and had 2 before that. The only thing you can really do is try to stay positive. Even though the thought is always there and know that if it's meant to be it will a happen. The miscarriages happen for a reason and I know thats hard to face but you wouldnt want your baby to be born and suffer would you? All I can say is pray cause god has a plan for you and if you do miscarry then it was probable for the best in the long run. Even if it don't feel like it at the time. Best of Luck and I wish you the best! 





 

Stefanie - posted on 09/02/2009

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A lot of women have miscarriages. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. But you need to stay calm; stress is not good for your baby. I'm sorry you feel so frustrated and scared though. You have my best regards!

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