immature dad.

Sharmaine - posted on 10/01/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Because of being an early father, He's still acting like a child. He don't know how to act like a father. It really made me feel that he doesn't love us (me and my baby). But he always says that he do love us. But that's not what I feel. Is it wrong that i'm looking for something that he don't have?

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Michelle - posted on 10/02/2013

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Being a young Father is NO excuse for not stepping up to his responsibilities.
You need to sit down and talk to him about what you expect from him. Men are hopeless and unless it is spelt out to them they don't know.
You also need to ask him if he actually wants to be a Father. Ask him to be honest because the earlier you have the conversation the easier it is in the long run.
Ask yourself (and him): Why it that just the Mother has to step up and take all the responsibility and not the Father? It takes both parents to raise a child (whether you're together or not) but BOTH parents have to take responsibility for the life they have created.

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