Is it common to think that your man is cheating on you soon after pregnancy?


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Nicole - posted on 07/30/2009




I would say I think that it is common! Im not a jelious person but after I had my daughter I was a basket case! Now I have 2 kids and im not like that anymore! I think its just all your hormones changing back and everything else! Dont worry im sure everything is fine!

Nichole - posted on 07/30/2009




Haha. This question makes laugh cause I was a nut case while I was pregnant. I had terrible mood swings and ALWAYS thought my hubby was cheating. He works at a night club on Saturday nights and when he would leave he would get dressed and spray cologne on. I would always get mad cause he I thought he was spraying it on for the little club girls. I was super jealous cause before I got pregnant I modeled and looked was super skinny and once my belly started to show I hated every minute of it. Thank goodness I got no stretch marks and bounced right back. But I was super nutty while pregnant it almost tore us apart. Now that I am not pregnant and back to my old self the rolls are reversed he is the jealous one.
So, don't feel bad it happens. Some worse than others. Just try to relax if you can, I know I wasn't able too.

Vicki - posted on 07/30/2009




It is common for one to cheat and more common for one to think the other is cheating. In any given situation.

Jamie - posted on 07/29/2009




I agree with Stefanie. Its a new situation for everyone and some guys get wierded out by a woman giving birth especailly if its vaginal. Its no longer thier pleasure tunnel they have always seen it as, now it has given life.

Stefanie - posted on 07/29/2009




I guess that depends on the couple. It's not unheard of. It might be b/c of feeling bad about how your body looks. Give it time and you will start to look better and better.

Also, some men are scared they will hurt their wife so they pull away. Just try to focus on cuddling and see what happens.

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