Is there anyone that can tell me how i can my jelous spouse to see how it hurts me of him bein jelous?

Tracy - posted on 05/30/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I am a mother that is 23 and i have a husband that is way jelous of our 1yr old n he wants me to give him all the attention and none to our one year old. Please help idk how i can get him to realize that he hurts me by being that way.

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Shannon - posted on 05/30/2009

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i find that my hubby likes it when i tell him that i'm proud of him for being such a great dad... or just a spur of the moment "i love you" with a big kiss. maybe grandma and grandpa can take the kids for a night and you and hubby can have an evening with just the two of you! i try to do something every day to show my hubby how much i love him or appreciate him as a husband and a father to our baby.

Karla - posted on 05/30/2009

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have u tried fixin a nice dinner just for the two of you. nothing too heavy but enough to fill you two up for extra activities after dinner ;). remember men need to feel very important. they need to feel like noone can replace them. remind him that he is a great man for providing you all with a great life. that you need him and love him so much.

Julie - posted on 05/30/2009

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My husband was like that with our first two children. Do you stay at home with your baby? My best piece of advice is take care of your marriage. A healthy marriage and home makes for a happy mommy and daddy and then you get happy secure children. If your baby doesn't have a set bed time start working on that so you and your hubby can have an hour or two of couple time before you go to bed. Make your husbands favorite dinner, get a DVD and watch it together snuggled on the couch. Once a month have a date night. I do little things for my husband occassionally, like put a nice little not in his lunch box just to tell him I love him and appreciate how hard he works to support his family. Or buy him something little at the store that I know he has been wanting but hasn't gotten because it wasn't in the budget, like an XBox game or even just a cheap 10 dollar movie that I know he likes. Men need to feel appreciated, I swear it is in their DNA lol! You don't have to do anything big, just make sure he know that you appreciate him and before you know it he will probably return the favor.

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Tracy - posted on 05/30/2009

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Thanks to everybody that has posted on my question that is all very helpful and i hope things get better in the mean time for us.

Tracy - posted on 05/30/2009

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Thanks Very much. Yes i stay at home with both of our kids. They do have a set bed time but after they go to bed my husband goes into a different room and watch tv. Is there maybe a way to get him to stay so we can have our time together?

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