Is there something wrong with me?

Hot_dq - posted on 09/25/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I'm very confused right now. So as it turns out I'd be 14 weeks pregnant today but we think I might of had a miscarriage about 9 weeks ago. I don't know for sure because I never went to the doctor (I can't go to the doctor do to insurance problems, which is a whole other story) but I did call my doctor and a few others and they all said it was most likely a miscarriage. So I did get a period the next month and the next some were late some early but the doctor said that was normal. Then last month I had my period (also late again) on the 24th and it was normal (6days) but then I had my period again exactly two weeks later so the 7th of this month. So I was trying to figure out what was going on and when I would get my next period should I go off my period on the 24th or the second one on the 7th... If I had gone of the first one my period would have started the 21st of this month and it didn't so now I'm waiting for my next option which will be the 5th of next mont. by the way for the past couple of days I've been urinating A LOT! More than usual I even get woken up in the am needing to pee which NEVER has happened before or at least rarely it does. Not that I'm saying I could be pregnant but I am hoping I can at least have a bit of information on this. Remember can't go to the doctor as of right now. Thanks all info is appreciated

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Ashley - posted on 09/26/2012

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You are going to have to go to a doctor, med center, low income clinic, or other facility if you are truly concerned. No one here is going to be able to give you a definite answer. You can always take a pregnancy test if you think that is still an option.

Chaya - posted on 09/25/2012

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Emergency room can't legally turn you away. If you're concerned about it, go to a Catholic ER. I can't speak for other owerships, but Catholic hospitals won't pursuit the debt if they know you can't afford it. I was once stabbed, the bill came to over $10,000 for 12 hours in the hospital, they forgave it all

Ashley - posted on 09/26/2012

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You cant count on your bladder issues to have it as a "symptom" of pg since you are not sure you are or not and your mind can be playing tricks on you. As for the pd, mine has been screwy for years like that. Just go to the er and have a bill that you can slowly pay off if its that big of a deal.(meaning the bill not your prob)

Jessi - posted on 09/26/2012

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I would go to a county medical facility. I'm not sure where you live but I have been both in TX and VA and my sister worked at a county medical facility in NC; they are not going to turn you away for regular medical needs, if you are financially unable to pay.



It does sound like you probably had a miscarriage, but could easily be pregnant again. I will also add though that after you have been pregnant (miscarried or delivered a baby) your cycles can be VERY irregular for months. So, I wouldn't assume that you either are pregnant or not. I would wait until the 5th of next month and take a pregancy test (you can buy them at the dollar store). Then based on that I would definitely see medical attention and let them know that you were recently pregnant and miscarried. If nothing else seek out a crisis pregnancy center. They will be able to help you find medical care for free or that you can afford. (like this for example http://www.cpcbloomington.org/index.html ) Even if you don't live near this place, contact them. They can probably help you find something close to you!!

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Hot_dq - posted on 09/27/2012

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Thanks everyone I wasnt too concerned about being pregnant again mostly I wanted to see if a possible miscarriage could be causing the irregularity of my period And when I should I expect my next period I took a pregnancy test and it said not pregnant so I am guessing its all good I'm planning on getting back on birth control very soon thank you all for your help :)

Maretta - posted on 09/25/2012

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go to the emergency room theuy wont refuse you....but sounds like you had a miscarriage....especially if your cycle was really heavy or clotty

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