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Charlie - posted on 05/26/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING TO PLEASE MY OLD MAN HE HAD AN AFFAIR I STAYED AND STILL TRIED TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT THIS BROKE ME WAY DOWN AND DESTROYED ME. I AM TRYING TO RELEARN WHO I AM I HAVE DONE SOME VENGFUL THINGS AND I AM TIRED OF HURTING MYSELF AND MY CHILDREN IT'S TOSAY LEAVE BUT HOW DO YOU WHEN YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE NOTHING

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Holly - posted on 05/26/2009

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I would kick his ass out sorry for the langue ,but im sorry he did it not u .you tall him he wanted her and now he has her ....rember that you need to do whats rite and the safest for you and your children ,kick him out and go and file for a divorce .Tell him what you want and tell him he better not even put up a fight .I hate to see a divorce with kids involved but that was rite down wrong of him .a good movie to see is Fire proof ,dont say nothing to the kids about what he has cone they will have enough on there plate .but i would i would ask him to leave ...cause you want it to say the same as much as possible ...good luck deer ,my prayers are with u and for the kids ..you have a huge advantage tho he cheeted on u ,u are way better then that ..

Amanda - posted on 05/26/2009

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Remeber that you are who you are with or without a man. You need to do what's best for you and your children, not what's best for him. If there is someone, your mother, a sibling, or a friend who can help you out until you can get on your feet, it doesn't hurt to ask for help. If you need to temporarily stay with him. Try to live your life as if he is not in it. I know that it must be hard, but just remember to put yourself and your children first.

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