me and my husband just got into a big fight and he lleft we have a 2 month old girl what should i do


Jodi - posted on 09/19/2009




Do you think there's anything left of the marriage? Or is it over over? Having a baby is SO stressful and hard on a marriage! I almost left my husband when our daughter was about that age. Wait things out, you're both tired and stressed and adjusting to an infant (whether it's your first or not, it's still an adjustment). I would get a sitter one night or weekend and have some serious conversation with him about whether there's a chance, and what you BOTH can do to make it easier on each other. Do what's best for your daughter, whether that's a single parent home or a home with both parents, you need to do what's best for her! Good luck, hang in there!


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Sylvia - posted on 09/19/2009




Give him some time to calm down and think about things. U should do the same. Thats what me and my husband did shortly after our first son was born. A new baby can put alot of stress on a marriage. Once you have had a chance to calm down you will be able to talk things out. Hopefully than he will come back. I hope things work out for the two of you. Congrats on the new baby. I hope this will help.

Rachel - posted on 09/19/2009




Hiya Maria, Im sure most people have been in the same situation! Just give you and husband time to cool off, Im sure everything will be fine. xx

Esmeralda - posted on 09/19/2009




i think you have to decide what you want to do?

even if it SEEMS like things cant be fixed...if you WANT to work on your marriage,then work on it!

ask him to come back and try to fix it.(sometimes we have to set aside our pride and stubborness to make things better ;) )

speak about what would make the situation better. and if yall have insurance try to find some kind of marriage counselor if its at that level. dont be too afraid or ashamed to work on something you should cherish.

but...if either of you dont make the effort or dont want to,then just try a trial seperation.while separated stay cordial. i wouldnt date anyone else during this time but try to spend time apart.sometimes people need space and time to think about our lives.

good luck!

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