Missing out on your single life

Sassy - posted on 10/20/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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After having babies , I feel trapped sometimes not able to go any where and its so hard to find time for yourself

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Clara - posted on 10/26/2013

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hi sassy I have twins too!!! It is very overwhelmed
with the cryng the changing dipers have them to nap etc... Never ends
I also feel sometimes that I can't or dont have time for myself at all....but I'm so proud of having them thank G' . Its just the moment that you feel really tired and still gotta do housework and cooking...picking up the mess not only the kids that are gonna be 1 very soon but the fathers mess....that just makes me more angry as I have enough to deal with and we don't have any cleaning lady's...hopefully In a couple of years they will let me be and do something. For myself too :)
good luck to every mother ! Lets be strong as we are the real power in this world!

Sassy - posted on 10/21/2013

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Hi , the first and second month will be the hardest and busy of all with your newborn , I have twins and seriously , I was going insane , with the feeding , changing diapers , lack of sleep , constant crying , omg it was crazy , but I'm very thankful for having my mom to help out . I know that feeling cooped up , in your house that's why I took the kids and went to my mothers for awhile , I seriously really needed it ! And you know what it helped me ! It's like a new scenery , I also was overwhelmed and emotional , I wanted my single life back so bad at the time , but now I don't think like that anymore , I love my 2 kids and wouldn't have it any other way . I hope u find a way to help yourself

Analisa - posted on 10/21/2013

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I feeeel you!!! My baby is about to be a month, and i am going crazy being cooped up in the house. I wanna go out to dinner or even the gym!! But i had a c section and cant do it yet... Ive been getting into more arguments w my SO... I think im just emotional and overwhelmed that all i see are the walls of my house... Soon enough ill have my me time...

Sara - posted on 10/20/2013

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i feel the same way. I got a chance to go out last night with a friend and her mom for her bday and my fiance, made me feel so guilty for leaving the house at night while the kids were sleeping for 2 hours. I hate this feeling!!

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