My 6 week old only stays asleep in my arms

Samantha - posted on 12/10/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )




My 6 week old has begun a new habit the last few nights of waking every 10-30 minutes after I lay her down. She then refuses to fall back to sleep unless I at least pick her up, but usually have to nurse her too. I've tried soothing her in the crib but after 20 minutes she cries so hard she throws up. I've ended up falling asleep in the chair while she nurses and that's the ony way either of us has slept more than an hour at a time. I swaddle, use white noise, preheat the mattress with a heating pad and have no trouble with transferring her to her crib. I've also tried waiting longer before putting her down but it doesn't seem to matter. She is exclusively breastfed and refuses a pacifier. I won't cosleep and I don't believe cry it out is appropriate at this age. Any suggestions?


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Anna - posted on 12/13/2012




she has got major wind, I have had problems with it with both my kids and the best thing that worked was to get that god damned wind out. then she will be fine.

Letty - posted on 12/11/2012




My son is 3mths n still dose this.. I have to wait till he is in a deep sleep than swaddled him while he lays n his crib.. he's been wakn up every 2hours at night.. unless he sleeps n my arms he's good.. even his naps during the day are in my arms.. he is bottle fed now.. I don't let him cry it dosent help just makes hum more pist..

Carrie - posted on 12/11/2012




It sounds like you are doing all the right things. Good job mom! But, I can imagine it is quite frustrating. All I can suggest is that you keep trying. Maybe let her fuss just a little longer each time? I wouldn't have survived without a swing. They even have ones that vibrate these days. Good luck and keep up the good work!

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