My husband is driving me crazy!

Nina - posted on 11/22/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I am so confused. My husband works I'm a stay at home mom and also a full time college student. I have a 2 yr. old and 8 mo old. My husband complains all day about me and the kids. Everyday i get told how easy my life is, but its not I'm very overwhelmed I'm 25 and I'm going all day. He won't help at all never seen him do dishes give bath to children, if I asked him to change a diaper it is an inconvience. I feel like a slave when I make dinner he eats, no thank you if anything he will complain and he never picks up his dishes ever or trash even if he shaves he just leaves the hair all over the counter . I don't know what to do.


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User - posted on 11/23/2012




I don't know if you could finagle him into watching the kids for a day. I realize it doesn't sound like he would be very willing to do that but if you had a good excuse maybe he would. Then he would see how difficult it is to get all the things done in a day that you do! You could explain to him how you feel and when he tells you how easy your life is propose a switch. You could do the things he normally does (lawnmowing, snowshoveling, yardwork, etc.) and he could take on your responabilities (including cleaning, cooking, bedtime for the kids, etc.) If your job is so easy then he should be willing to do it for a day. I wish you luck and hope he comes around.

Cleaver - posted on 11/22/2012




i threatened to leave my husband i even stayed at my moms for a few days its worked for about 5 months now but hes starting to slip

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