my husband refuses to hav sex after baby

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Michelle - posted on 01/21/2014

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A lot of men are like that after seeing the woman they love go through childbirth. It's very daunting for them to see you in so much pain and they can't do anything.
The best thing to do is to communicate. Talk to each other and get him to open up and tell you how he's feeling. You also need to let him know that it's alright and he won't hurt you. Don't forget it's sex that put you in that position in the first place so in a strange way sex=pain in the end.

Umekobutterfly - posted on 01/21/2014

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First of all CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BABY!
I'm not sure of all the details on your marriage but dont let your husband stress you, instead thank him!
having a baby is already an emotional journey for your mind and body but when your tiny angel arrives it will all be worth it! Your baby will be your number one priority and as crazy as it sounds, sex will be one of the last things on your mind! Love yourself and your baby and your husband will come around, luv ya & GOOD Luck!:)

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