my kids father wishes to contact them.

Cara - posted on 02/16/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Hi all, my kids dad wants contact with them his lawyer has written to me, the thing is he takes heroin and was violent, at the time of the incident social workers got involved as I had to leave my home and stay with my mum, they advised me that it was in the best interest of my kids to keep them away from their dad although they didnt have a court order now my kids dad wants contact and hes still on drugs, am I in the wrong for not allowing contact

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Jennifernider - posted on 02/17/2014

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I really hope it works out for u and ur kids and he cleans up for them it is important to have a father in there life but not if he's using no kid should have to see that be strong cara your making the right choice

Cara - posted on 02/17/2014

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Thanks very much guys, I have been to a solicitor and have been told he has no chance, if he wants to pursue it, it will go to a panel, its nice to know that there are people out there that share my views xx

Jennifernider - posted on 02/17/2014

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Very we'll said Brian I hope she read ur response couldn't have said it better myself

Brian - posted on 02/16/2014

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Do not allow contact unless it is court supervised. You can make it very clear. He can make the decision. Stop using drugs and clean up his act and you will be agreeable, but continue being a drug abuser and you will not let your children into his unsupervised custody. If he has a lawyer, I will assume he obviously needs a lawyer, meaning he has a criminal past. Allow family court to make the decision. They will not knowing allow the child to be endangered by a drug abuser.

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