My man has 3 other babymamas...Help me!!!

Nellie - posted on 03/06/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My man has three other babymama and one is okay but still bad i have her son and hes has problems he has ADHD and hasnt been to the doctors..hes teeth r messed up and he needs glasses...which she did nothing for him so im tryin to get him to the doctors for all that and take care of my 5 month which he is really activtie...Then he has another babymama wont let him see hes son but she is a teacher and i see her all the time and she gives me ugly looks all the time and is now riding by our house...idk bout that one...then hes little gurls mamma is my biggest problems she has caused so many problems between me and my man and ive been thinking bout not being with him no more cause she trys to not let him see her and i dont want me to be the reason...the only reason any of them cause me drama is because they want to mess with him still and plus he makes good money...i believe he loves me but i really dont know how much more of the drama i can take...i cant live my life thinkin all the time if he still loves one of them and he just messing around on me...its happen to me to many times and im tired of the hurt my son doesnt deserve this crap...i know they r hes kids but the chicks should come first...and hes little gurls mom treats her like crap but hes mom always has her so she get spoiled but he always spends more time on her then hes son...and hes son is only 5 months he needs to know hes daddy and all that stuff...and she knows him and he thinks just cause her mom is shity to her he as to treat hes other kids like shit when she is around idk what to do about taht either...i love him with all my heart but its hard dealing with these little girls acting stupid..its to much drama i have enough drama already in my life...this girl has keyed my car tried messing with him all kinds of things i dont really n
know what to do anymore...

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Nellie - posted on 03/07/2011

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We have talked about all this and ive tired to break up with him twice but he say not to let them get to me...he loves me and wants to be with me...and if he trys talkin to the girl she doesnt listen she young and acts like shes still in high school....the worst thing about it all she cause so much drama in our life and the little girl mite not be hes...if that is the case im goin through all this BS for no reason...but my man doesnt want a DNA test...maybe one day soon he'll change hes mnd and get it done...i try not to worry bout them but its hard when they always trying to mess up our relationship...im not to worried about them doin anything to hurt me or my baby they r the kind of girls that talk more then they do anything...ive gotten to the point ive went up to them and they get scared and say sorry and all that crap...its just hard to deal with all the drama and have a relationship a good one at that...and its hard on me cause in this town i dont have any friends cause all these girls...the closest friend i have is a hour away and she just had a baby and her man is a butt...so she has her own drama that i try to help her with too...i found this website and i think talkin to other mother can help me...i just really want this to work and need a way to ease my mind about all this crap

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O girl that is a whole lot of extra stress. I think you should do what is best for your child. Your child doesn't need to be around all the drama. It is not fair to you or your child.



I think you need to have a serious sit down conversation with your partner and express your feelings. Something needs to be done.



Keying your car??!! Driving by your home??!! Sounds like they have some obsession which could become dangerous to your family. You should not have to live like that.



The only advice I can think of to give you, is to try and handle the situation like an adult and try to make peace. If that isn't an option then you might need to think about what you truly want out of everything.



If you know you both love each and you know you both can work through all the drama then I would stick by your family! If the girl keeps driving by.. notify the police. You might need to get the police involved to get them to back off!



Like I said, I would have a serious talk with your partner and go over your options to find a solution!



Good luck w/ everything!

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