My son's father doesn't know he has a child what should i do? ?

DERION - posted on 09/17/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I've been knowing my son's father since 2012. I got pregnant in 2013, we were together but it was nothing serious in my eyes we had sex but it meant nothing to me. Long story short my mom and i got evicted we moved i broke up with him when i realized i was setting for less. The whole time i was pregnant ans didn't even know! I found out i was 6 weeks..pregnant i never did get intouch with him i went through my pregnancy alone my lil boy is 3 months today. Everyday im looking for him, i wrote him on Facebook i even wrote his cousins but no one have responded. I feel like my only option is to call CHILD SUPPORT services so they can help me locate him and inform him about his son. But am i doing it for the wrong reasons? I dont wan't his money i only want to locat him! But also he is not "father material he parties drinks smoke wees and steals am i better of doing this alone? Because once i open a child support case theres no going back... any advice? ? If your going to rude then dont fucking comment thnk you😀

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DERION - posted on 09/23/2014

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I know my comment was rude, And i sincerely apologize for offending you. I can't take what i said back, but if i could do it all over i would do it differently. Nobody's perfect. But Anyway JODI I have more important things to be doing with my time im sure you do too, so goodbyee now.

Jodi - posted on 09/22/2014

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It's called "manners", just in case you haven't heard of them and need to look it up. Grow up.

Jodi - posted on 09/22/2014

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No, I just think it is really rude to speak that way coming out of the gates. You automatically put people on the defensive with your rude language.

DERION - posted on 09/22/2014

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Haha is you mad JODI ?? Lol....you feel some type of way? Bitch i could care less about your advice anyway get the fuck off my page

Jodi - posted on 09/22/2014

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"If your going to rude then dont fucking comment thnk you"

Wow, so you write a nice post asking for sincere advice.....and then end with that?

My advice? Your fucking problem. I was all ready to give you some honest, genuine advice until I read that.

Honestly lady, if you want genuine advice on this page, there is absolutely no need to put a comment like that in your opening post. Saying "If you are going to be rude, I'd appreciate if you didn't comment" would have sufficed. But speaking like that to people who haven't even said a word to you yet? Nice......

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