Need Advice Please Help

Jessica - posted on 09/03/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I recently Found out my husband cheated on me and im just about 6 months pregnant. He did sleep with this older woman but he did kiss her and drive 4 hours just to meet up with her. I know I will never be able to trust him again but im not sure if i should still stay with him.

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Kristina - posted on 09/03/2009

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I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. The decision is souly up to you.. I've seen the same kind of thing go both ways, but you need to think of whats best for you and your baby. I've always agreed with the motto "Better to grow up in two happy homes than one unhappy home". I would suggest taking a "break" and going from there. See how commited he is to you and your unborn child. Then decide if it's worth staying with him and if you believe he will be faithful. I do not necessarily believe once a cheater always a cheater. It depends on the person. Good luck either which way!

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Samantha - posted on 09/03/2009

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I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this, especially while you are in a delicate state already. Personally, I would dump him. He obviously has no regard for your feelings, your wants, your needs. You are carrying the child that you two created together, and yet he is off with some floozy living it up?? I don't think so buster! I wouldn't want my kids being around someone like that, and I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around him myself! If you aren't enough for him, drop him like a bad habit and give him his precious freedom. You'll be better off without him!

Samantha - posted on 09/03/2009

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I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this, especially while you are in a delicate state already. Personally, I would dump him. He obviously has no regard for your feelings, your wants, your needs. You are carrying the child that you two created together, and yet he is off with some floozy living it up?? I don't think so buster! I wouldn't want my kids being around someone like that, and I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around him myself! If you aren't enough for him, drop him like a bad habit and give him his precious freedom. You'll be better off without him!

Samantha - posted on 09/03/2009

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I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this, especially while you are in a delicate state already. Personally, I would dump him. He obviously has no regard for your feelings, your wants, your needs. You are carrying the child that you two created together, and yet he is off with some floozy living it up?? I don't think so buster! I wouldn't want my kids being around someone like that, and I sure as hell wouldn't want to be around him myself! If you aren't enough for him, drop him like a bad habit and give him his precious freedom. You'll be better off without him!

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