Need Some New Friends!

T. - posted on 10/12/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Hi I am 26 years old, and have three children. I am not married yet, but hope to be soon ;) My boyfriend's name is Charles. I have been with him going on four years, and I am so in love with him! He works his butt of for his family, but is never home. When he is home he does not do much of anything :( That would be my only problem with him...
Anyway, Payson my son is six years old, and in first grade. Harlee my daughter is two, and Bentley my youngest son is one in a week! I am a stay-at-home mom, and a full time college student. I love my children, and my life most of the time. However, I am recently feeling myself slowly go crazy from the routine of my life. Everyday looks just like the last. I am lonely, and temporarily without a vehicle. I would like to make some new friends that have some things in common with me. Hope to hear from people soon!
T.

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S - posted on 10/28/2013

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Hi ladies,
I'm 26, have a 2 year old, with one on the way, due April.
I'm not a SAHM as yet, thankfully I was able to get my 2 year old into daycare to be able to socialize with other little people.
However now, I am trying to start a business from home, in order to keep her in daycare, as well as bring in some income =)
It's definitely different staying at home, not working and no more school to focus on.
I live in Toronto and have zero mommy friends.
Would love to make some connections.

Bethany - posted on 10/24/2013

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Hi ladies...my name is Bethany and i'm 26, mother of a 7 year old, and totally new to being a stay at home mom. I just moved to Canada (Szilvia, are you IN Toronto??) so I'm not able to work just yet. Moved to marry the love of my life. So we've been married about 2 months now. I'm struggling to find things to do during the day? I'm homeschooling my daughter so that keeps the two of us busy, but coming from a fulltime working life, to a full time stay at home life...Transition is a bit more difficult than i had imagined! Please any advice from either of you? What keeps you busy? What methods do you take to staying on task?
PS...LOVE the names! Bentley! love it!

T. - posted on 10/14/2013

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I don't think we are too far apart... I live in Northern Vermont... It takes me about 10 minutes to cross the border.

Szilvia - posted on 10/12/2013

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I am 27. My children's names are Valerie and Evan :) Most of the time I am good because I love my family so much, spending time with them and taking care of them but occasionally I do get a little depressed and feel like I need a change. You are right about the cleaning because I know I ALWAYS feel better when my place is clean. I live in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, you?

T. - posted on 10/12/2013

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Thank you! I tried for unique names :) I am sorry that you seem to be going through the same stuff as me, but I am glad to have someone to relate to a little. Going for a walk is difficult with the two youngest kidos, because I do not have a double stroller. I WISH I DID!! I love music, it odes help me too. I also have days where I just skip everything, but those are my bad days. As much as I hate all the cleaning, and cooking, if I do nothing at all I feel 10 times worse. Tell me something about you. how old are you? What are your children's names? Where do you live? (You do not have to answer that if you do not want to) I am nosey :P Thanks for responding!

Szilvia - posted on 10/12/2013

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I feel the same way sometimes, lonely and tired of the same old same old. My children are 8 years old and 2 months, a girl and a boy. My boyfriend is the same way, he works hard to support us so by the time he comes home he is tired and needs to sit and relax. I have days were I am so tired of cleaning, laundry and dishes that I just leave it and skip that day and for dinner I'll just make something really simple. The days were I feel myself going crazy I have found that going for a walk really helps although that might be difficult with a 1 and 2 year old. The other thing that helps is listening to music, it always makes me feel better. I definitely need to make some new friends too!
Btw I love the names of your kids, they are very unique and original! :-)

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