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Christi - posted on 08/05/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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So i am a first time mother.. 21. and this whole stay at home thing is already getting old. dont get me wrong I love my son and spending every moment with him... and iw ant to spend every moment i can but i am bored... i feel bad for feeling thing way,... anyone else?

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lol...what can I say to help you out? trying doing things that can not only benefit you but the baby as well. My son is now 5 years old and time went by soo fast I cant even tell you where it went! Probably you need some me time...meaning you need to spend sometime alone with out the baby once in a while. I was like that when I had my son once I explained that to my mother she took my son everytime I need that break and it was a big relief. I hope this helped a little for the most part I wish the best for you and your little...God Bless!

Terresa - posted on 08/05/2009

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like i said i'm in a position where i dont have a choice... if i could i'd run into the work force and say "pick me!!!!!"

Christi - posted on 08/05/2009

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thank you terresa, its good to know im not the only one feeling like this, and you totally hit the mark with your answer, you are totally right, thanks again!

Terresa - posted on 08/05/2009

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I have spent the last 6 years as a stay at home mum and that wasnt by choice, if you are in a position to go to work, study or play do it even if its only part time... yes our kids need us but we need time for ourselves too, having a disabled son taught me that. people have different thoughts on putting kids in day care but i feel its vital social interaction for them but honestly dont feel bad about wanting to get out of the house its healthy

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