Nightmare boyfriend!!

Rebecca - posted on 03/20/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




We have been together for almost a year and a half and we have a 3 1/2 mth old baby. Everything happened quite quick and a lot of ups and downs along the way. He got his ex pregnant and he now has a boy who's 10 months old. This happened before we were together but she gave birth to their baby when I was 4 months pregnant so it affected me badly with my hormones etc. now we have just moved in together and he stays up all night playing FIFA and not getting up to late afternoon meaning I am left with a mess he has left lying around, he doesn't help with anything and barely pays me and our son any attention I have to do it all. I do love him but I'm just finding it hard and don't wana give up our relationship but don't want to be unhappy. Also we have had a few heated arguments since we have moved in together and we can't have a conversation without arguing and when our son cries he always shouts at Him even if he's crying because he's hungry which starts a row between us cus it's not fair to shout at a baby help!!


Kay - posted on 03/20/2014




Rebecca to be honest with you , you need to let the man go . I always tell my daughter, men with multiple women with children are not the right ones to go for (I in no way mean offense).

I could understand if he made an effort to help, but based off of what your saying all he does is use up air and get women pregnant. As women were more emotionally driven than men and get so narrow minded. We tend to only look and the good things and forget the bad things. As a man he needs to take responsibility . You just gave birth 31/2 months ago to only one son , not two . You shouldn't have to be cleaning up after a grown man who lays around playing video games . Im also guessing he doesn't have a job and if he does you are struggling to pay bills because a job that lets a man sleep in till the afternoon surely couldn't pay well . I can not stress enough that you need to leave the man behind . Your son will be much better of without him . Boys need a strong fatherly figure to help them progress in life and your boyfriend(im guessing) is not a father.

1 Comment

View replies by

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms