Not having sex !!

Tiffany - posted on 02/08/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I am the type of person that wants sex everyday !! My husband and I only have sex once every 2-3 months and he says he doesn't know why...he blames it on beer but we do not drink every night !! I am thinking it is an excuse on top of that we do not cuddle often or hold hands in public I have been married for 5 years did not think this would happen so early !!.any thoughts feeling so alone and not loved at all !!

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Tiffany - posted on 02/10/2014

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I have tried to talk to him and he avoids it every time by changing the subject and I know his sex drive is fine considering he masterbates a lot (so he says) !! I am getting to the point of feeling unattractive and not wanted by him but how am I supposed to try to fix things if he won't even talk about it. I actually think he would laugh in my face if I even brought up counselling !! At this point I feel more like his roommate then his wife !! For the simple fact that emotionally wise our marriage is a one way street !! How do I make him take me seriously !! Am I doomed or am I still able to fix it :S

Michelle - posted on 02/08/2014

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I would get some marriage counselling now before it turns into a bigger issue. You also need to let him know how you feel and try and get to the bottom of it.
You also need to know that not everyone has the same sex drive so you need to be understanding if his is lower than yours.
Communication is the key to any good marriage.

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