ok girls I wanna know :)

Talya - posted on 11/24/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Does anybody have a boyfriend that when you want something you have to tell him what it is?? It annoys me to have to explain everything I want when I;m the one at home with the baby, he wouldnt make it if we were to switch places lol
Who else is experiencing this?

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Erica - posted on 12/06/2013

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Most women with a man. If there is something you want, you almost always have to tell them or at-least hint around to what you need. Maybe you can start leaving little notes around the house for him; makes it easier for the both of you.

Talya - posted on 11/25/2013

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Lol you are so right about that! I have to tell him everything including what our daughter needs because he feels like since I'm the mom and his fiance I should know all of these things but I feel like as a father he should know some of these things also.

Jodi - posted on 11/24/2013

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LOL, women the world over. That's an annoyance you are going to have to just get over. You see, they aren't mind readers. How does he know what you want done and how you would like it done if you don't spell it out to him? Honestly, my husband could walk past the sink of dirty dishes and not even see it until I point it out to him, and even then, if I want him to actually do them because I'm busy, I also have to ask him that. He never gets upset when I ask him to do things, so I just ask, but he honestly doesn't see it the same way I do. So the one thing I have done to remove a level of frustration in my life is to stop getting upset that he needs things pointed out to him in order for them to get done.

I think you will find that one of the biggest frustrations of men is that we women tend not to just get to the point and let them know what it is we want, rather we tend to beat around it using hints and innuendos and then get all upset when they don't "get it". Meanwhile, the man is sitting there wondering what the hell he did to make us upset!

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