OMG! I need to vent...

Nikkita - posted on 10/08/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )

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So, I got a text this moring at 8:14 from my daughter's father. He told me that he has been doing "alot of thinking and something doesn't feel right about this situation." He also said that he knows "win" I have the baby' he wants a DNA test. He said that "something doesn't add up." He went on to say, "i know with out a doubt the baby isnt mine nothing personal." Then I asked him if he'd always felt that way and he said yes. But it's funny that he's been trying to get me to come over in the middle of the night to "chill" with him since day one, and when I was over there the other night, he was rubbing my belly & even trying to feel on me. How do you doubt the child is yours, but want to be all over me? I told him THAT doesn't add up. I told him that I'll let him know when she gets here so he can have his DNA test. I know she is his, but this sorry ass bastard is just trying to get out of his responsibilities. He can kiss my ass with that shit! Once the test comes back saying that she is his, he'll get a chance to be there for her. If not, I'll take matters into my own hands. I'll get child support from him, and I'll let his family know about the beautiful addition to their family so that they will have the opportunity to get to know her, and she will be able to know them.

Mind you this bastard TEXTED me this at 8:14 am. He couldn't even man up enough to call me! WTF?! Are you serious?! I was still sleeping! I was awakened by fuckery from a bullshit-ass-dude!

Sorry. I just needed to vent.

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I'm sorry, that is absolutely horrible. I have a friend that her husband pulled the same shit yesterday about their 1 1/2 year old girl and also denied the baby boy that is due any day. Men are such jerks. He will really feel like an ass when it comes out that it is his child. Good luck with everything, and once again I'm sorry that he is putting you through this.

Nikkita - posted on 10/08/2009

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He's been totally absent the past 5 months, and when I saw him this weekend, he was still trying to call me his "babe," "baby," "hun," and other terms like that. Then today, he came at me with this. I didn't want him anymore anyway! I'm so ready to prove him wrong so I can see his face! He knows she's his! I know he does! GGRRRR! He makes me sick!

Le'Andrea - posted on 10/08/2009

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I'm sorry you had to go through that!!! My daughter's father did me the same way and now he feels bad that he took me through that and he also wants to get back together with me but i told him it was OVER!! So when you prove him wrong tell him to KEEP IT MOVING!!!

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