People trying to ruin my life, and take away my baby...

Jennifer - posted on 08/12/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Last year, my fiance and I moved into an apartment on his father's property. Shortly there-after his father's girlfriend moved in. Everything went downhill from there. Last October, my fiance got into a terrible roll-over car accident, he was okay... but that morning when I returned from visiting him in the hospital I called pat's father's "fiance" at the time, to see if Pat's father was holding up okay. She started calling me names and so on. She then hung up on me and called Pat's father, and told him that what she did to ME i did to HER. That night I returned home with my fiance from the hospital, after he had had surgery, and his father and his father's fiance started talking to me about how I am an unfit mother and that they are going to take my son from me. All sorts of unbeleivable lies were told, and my whole life was turned upside down. I went and stayed with my dad for a week, lost my job and things passed. However, we had no where else to go so we stayed. Prior to the accident, Pat's father's fiance's son, a few friends and I went out for a while, and I ended up having an innocent kiss with him. Which Im guessing is where things started. However, I came clean about the whole thing, and have had to pay the price for it ever since. August first was Pat's father's wedding. The man that I kissed back in october, waited for Pat to leave to drive the baby around to get him to take a nap, confronted me and started a huge fight. Which of course I was blamed for. He started chest bumping me and threatening to hit me, saying he would because hes hit his own mother. He got a little too close so I hit him. Which I shouldn't have done, but then decided to walk away and wait for pat to get back. While I was walking down the road, away from the sittuation Pat's father's new wife's friend, came up from behind me, grabbed me by the throat, threw me on the concrete and stomped on my hand. Pat showed up shortly after, and had to pull me in the car to get people from pulling me out of it to continue beating and clawing at me. Pat's father and new wife started screaming obscenities at me, and telling me I had to move out, which I did. However, I was blamed for the whole sittuation. And this is just the tip of the iceberg, these people have been harassing me for a long time. Pushing my buttons and threatening me. My son, myself and my fiance are now living in a studio apartment. I just need someone to talk to. I need to not feel crazy. I dont really have a family to turn to. But I don't deserve this. Being strangers you have no reason to believe me, but my son is well taken care of. He is happy, healthy and loved... SOOO loved. He's never been spanked, or screamed at. He gets put in time out for doing his 2 year old things but that's about it. Thanks for listening to me rant. I just want these people to leave me and my son alone, and to stop threatening me.

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Bobbie - posted on 08/12/2009

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Christina is right, because if you go to the police about everything and anything else happens then you will have it on record and they look bad and you have everything that happened.

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I would get as far away from trash like that as possible, and yes, report them all and keep files of everything.

Bobbie - posted on 08/12/2009

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People like that are not worth your time. HONESTLY! and if your fiances father wants to take their side over his grandchilds. ( which is pretty much what he is doing) then let him. obviously your son has who really cares about him. and your fiances father will feel like a jerk once he realizes he cant see his grandchild, because who sees YOUR child is YOUR decision. how does your fiance feel about the situation?? just try to stay away from these people. and if they try to start something with you go to the police because it is not gonna get better. i hope i helped a little bit.

Melissa - posted on 08/12/2009

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Please go to the police get aprotection order for you and you son. If what you say is true they very voilent and way to unpredictable, just keep you and your baby safe please. As Emily stated keep a diary of everything and be very specific.

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In my honest opinion, I think you just need to completely cut these people out of your life. Stop taking their calls and don't let them near your son. They hit you once and who's to say that it won't happen again or the next time it won't be your son? Your baby doesn't need these negative influences in his life. If that doesn't work I'd say it's time to look into getting a restraining order. Keep a diary of all the times they call and what they say/how they threaten you.

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