Playing mind games!

Trey - posted on 02/09/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My childs father plays mind games! I left him bc he cheated and in the process of accepting things! Something's i find out about him hurts but it just seems like a big game to him! I don't want any contact with him until I heal & have told him several times to contact my mom who has my son while I'm at work! He doesn't get it & doesn't care that he continues to hurt me by not letting me be!

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Mary - posted on 02/09/2014

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he obviously likes messing with yourr head, and from the sounds of things he gets more kicks out off messing with you than seeing or spending time with his child. be strong its alot harder said than done but show him your not intimidated nor do you care about his games as the other woman said change your number if he goes near your work and you feel nervous ask a member of the male staff to tell him to leave show him you are serious about not wanting him near you and if he persists get some sort of restraining order until you can sort out yourself for your child. i know it might seem extreme but how far is he going to push you before you crack how low will he make you feel, Be strong if not for yourself then for your baby.

Jenny - posted on 02/09/2014

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If he cheated i agree he doesn deserve ur time. bcuz u loved him n he hurt u doesnt mean u can jus switch ur feelings off, it takes time 2 adjust. Dont humer him change ur number if hes got ur mums number he dont need urs, put u n ur lil 1 first he had his chance do wateva u feel neccessary to get u past this hard time

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