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My boyfriend has a child with someone else and his child is sick and needs to go to the hospital. His baby mamma don't have a car so he has to go pick them up. Am I wrong for not wanting her in our car? Should I go with them or just let him be?

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Michelle - posted on 02/25/2014

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So he's cheated on you with her and you're still with him?
It is that easy to leave, I did it to my cheating ex husband with 2 kids. You also never said it was your car, you said OUR car.

Jodi - posted on 02/25/2014

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Not to mention that you asked " Am I wrong for not wanting her in our car? Should I go with them or just let him be?". So letting him be WAS one of the options.

Jodi - posted on 02/25/2014

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You know what? When you don't put all the information in the opening post, you can't then crack the shits when you don't get an answer that takes that into account. Why do people do that?

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Okay Michelle but for 1 it's not that easy to just break up with him because we have a child ourselves. 2. It's the same person that he cheated on me with and 3 it's MY car. It's not like I'm telling him NOT to go I'm saying if she has to ride in my car with my man then I'm going to. What's wrong with me going? It's not like I don't know them. I'm the one that's taking care of him and watching him when she has to do something or go somewhere.

Michelle - posted on 02/24/2014

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Yes you are wrong for not wanting her in the car and no you shouldn't go with them.
If you can't handle the fact your boyfriend has a child with someone else then you need to end the relationship. He will be tied to her for the rest of his life so either accept it or move on.
If the child is so sick that it needs to go to hospital then you need to back off. Would you be able to live with yourself if something happened to the child because you were being petty about letting her in the car?

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