Pregnant again

Lola - posted on 11/29/2013 ( 12 moms have responded )

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After having our fifth child just over 3 weeks ago, I'm pregnant again. My husband, who is now 53 and I am 20, have been having sex every day, more than once a day sometimes. I want to give him babies and the sex he wants but he doesn't want me using or taking any contraceptive measures. He goes to the gym every day and he eats everything, he is so big and bulky and massively muscular, weighs 120 kg and is dominating and persistent about sex. When ever he wants it, he just hops ontop of me and does it and he is so heavy, big and strong I can't resist or push him off. He says he wants over 8 kids, I want to make him happy but everything's happening way to fast and ever since I have been with him I have been pregnant.

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Jackie - posted on 11/30/2013

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is there any way to privately chat to you Lola? I was with a guy who was 35yrs older than me.. it was much the same for me. What this man is doing to you is abuse. Whether you know it or feel it is up to you, but it is wrong.

Michelle - posted on 11/30/2013

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He is abusive. NO man has a right to force himself onto a woman. It doesn't matter if they are married or not it's called rape. If you say no and he forces it then he's breaking the law.
I can't believe you have 5 children and you are only 20. He could also be charged with child abuse if you were under 16 when you were first with him.
He is a monster, sorry the only word for someone that takes advantage of a child like he does. He's a dirty old man that needs to be locked up.

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Avinley Renee - posted on 12/02/2013

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That's Not Even Right. You Need To Take Control Over That. Get Birth control. And Put His Bull Crap To An End.

[momoftwo] - posted on 12/02/2013

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Don't let him treat you like that, it is abuse like everyone else is telling you. He's 53 and wants 8 kids?! What is going to happen if he falls ill and passes away, you're going to be left with a housefull that you alone will have to support!
Did you even have a say in how many kids you wanted?
You have been letting him control you since the age of 16? You really need to find someone better. A man that will love you and treat you right and not just use you as a sex toy. You're a woman, not a machine.
As far as I see it he's a manipulative controlling rapist. You were 16 and he was 49... Do you see how bad that looks my god I'm scared for you.
I myself was pregnant at 16 with my first by my ex it wasn't planned but I don't regret having her. But we were robbed of our childhood basically, you should be out with the girls having fun or meeting your soulmate. Not mothering an old perverts 5 KIDS at 20 years old. He has trapped you!

Cc - posted on 12/01/2013

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So you had sex immediately after giving birth? And you already know you're pregnant? Hmmm...

Callista - posted on 12/01/2013

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I don't think i could handle that! I understand your want to please him but wow..think of your body. Delivery takes a huge toll on your body both physically and emotionally...not to mention taking care of your children as well . Ask yourself if this is for real what you want yourself, talk it over with him and talk to him! your doctor even can give you some suggestions.

Michelle - posted on 12/01/2013

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Do you have any family or friends that can help you?
A marriage is a partnership and both parties should be in agreement on decisions that are made. Having children is one of those.
Does he ever ask you what you want?
You need to ask yourself if this is what you really want in life. You are so young and to be tied down with 6 children is really sad. Would you want your daughter/s to meet a control freak and be subjected to the same abuse? You are teaching your children that your marriage is "normal" when it's not. By staying you are also teaching your son's to be abusers.

Lola - posted on 11/30/2013

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I don't say no, I can only join in or take it, either way it still feels good. He just hops onto me whenever. Like in the shower, he starts kissing me and then pins me to the wall and does it. He takes advantage of his massive size and pushes me into it.

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