realtionship right or wrong??

Becka - posted on 02/03/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




i am a 26 year old mother to a 5 year old daughter who is my world I have been dating an older man for about a year now. he is very good to me and we have such a great time together, but i am worried because he is showing no signs of a committed relationship and does not want to meet my family or be involved in my daughters life. I just don't know what do to?? help please...


Carrie - posted on 02/03/2013




Becka, I'll be frank with you..

If you want things to be good for you and your daughter, then it's important for the guy to want to be involved in your daughters life as well.. not to put a damper on the situation but if he doesn't want to be there for your daughter it wont work out very well if the relationship does go any further. (I've seen a similar situation with my mom and dad because my dad didn't want to be there for the family.. it hurts the kids alot, and it hurts the mom too knowing that the children were hurt.)
Relationships are important, and I hope for the best for you, however, the best for you isn't leaving your daughter in the dust in the decision making process.. perhaps you can talk with your daughter about what she'd like you to do? That might help make it a team effort. Hope this helped ^^'

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