Sex after birth

Jessi - posted on 07/11/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Well my boyfriend is saying the reason why he is just teasing and not lasting long is cause of watching his daughter born, but see this has been going on for 2 years now. Has anyone else gone through thier boyfriend or husband not wanting sex caused by watchin birth??? i am totally heart broken and super sexually frusterated what can i do???

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Christina - posted on 07/12/2009

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He should def be over the watching the birth. you could try giving him a taste of his own medicine. get him all excited and start doing the work , and when you know hes almost finished just stop, and walk away. he may get mad but serves him right. But i most certainly agree with the above response. get you some battery operated friends and have a hayday! he will def start to feel inadequate and try to make some changes. if you add me to your facebook or COM i can give you another helpful idea :) i just dont want to post it on here :)

Kate CP - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Felicia Neikolle:

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Felicia Neikolle - posted on 07/11/2009

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LOL ... or Seventh Heaven ... seven different settings including one called the Harley ... for any mood you're in!! LOL

Kate CP - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Felicia Neikolle:



Quoting Jessi:

yeah he doesnt drink but its like the problem stared at the fact that for 2 years he finishes but doesnt let me finish and then when i got pregnante and had my daughter the sex stayed the same and i think he is finding excuses im so heart broken cause he was telling me about how i should be happy with the one i love but how can you not have sex with the one you love just tease her???





Honey, go buy you some toys and don't sweat it.  When he finishes just roll over and pull out your trusty "Buzz" and pleasure yourself.  After a few times of this, he'll start feeling inadequate and be more interested in taking care of you ... no man likes to know he can be replaced easily ... especially by a toy. LOL ... or you could always use it to pleasure yourself prior to.





I recommend the rabbit. It's expensive but SOOOOOOOO worth it. :P

Felicia Neikolle - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Jessi:

yeah he doesnt drink but its like the problem stared at the fact that for 2 years he finishes but doesnt let me finish and then when i got pregnante and had my daughter the sex stayed the same and i think he is finding excuses im so heart broken cause he was telling me about how i should be happy with the one i love but how can you not have sex with the one you love just tease her???


Honey, go buy you some toys and don't sweat it.  When he finishes just roll over and pull out your trusty "Buzz" and pleasure yourself.  After a few times of this, he'll start feeling inadequate and be more interested in taking care of you ... no man likes to know he can be replaced easily ... especially by a toy. LOL ... or you could always use it to pleasure yourself prior to.

Felicia Neikolle - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Jessi:

yeah he doesnt drink but its like the problem stared at the fact that for 2 years he finishes but doesnt let me finish and then when i got pregnante and had my daughter the sex stayed the same and i think he is finding excuses im so heart broken cause he was telling me about how i should be happy with the one i love but how can you not have sex with the one you love just tease her???


Honey, go buy you some toys and don't sweat it.  When he finishes just roll over and pull out your trusty "Buzz" and pleasure yourself.  After a few times of this, he'll start feeling inadequate and be more interested in taking care of you ... no man likes to know he can be replaced easily ... especially by a toy. LOL ... or you could always use it to pleasure yourself prior to.

Kate CP - posted on 07/11/2009

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Quoting Jessi:

yeah he doesnt drink but its like the problem stared at the fact that for 2 years he finishes but doesnt let me finish and then when i got pregnante and had my daughter the sex stayed the same and i think he is finding excuses im so heart broken cause he was telling me about how i should be happy with the one i love but how can you not have sex with the one you love just tease her???


Ohhhhh...I gotcha. Make him get you off first. If he won't then don't put out. It's not fair that he gets off and you don't! How would he like it if you did that to him? He'd be bitching about blue balls for days! Men can be so insensitive. :P

Jessi - posted on 07/11/2009

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yeah he doesnt drink but its like the problem stared at the fact that for 2 years he finishes but doesnt let me finish and then when i got pregnante and had my daughter the sex stayed the same and i think he is finding excuses im so heart broken cause he was telling me about how i should be happy with the one i love but how can you not have sex with the one you love just tease her???

Kate CP - posted on 07/11/2009

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Wow. That's quite an issue...

My husband didn't want sex at first but he quickly got over the whole "Omygod I just watched my wife push a human being out of her vagina" thing. After 2 years I would think that he should have gotten past that. I really don't know what advice to give here, though. Maybe get him really drunk?



I wish you the best of luck on this, though! *hugs*

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