Sharing Children

Jes - posted on 05/21/2009 ( no moms have responded yet )




My step daughter is 4yrs, I've been with her father since she was 9 mos and we have had custody of her for the last 2ys. She goes to her bio mom's every other weekend and now on Thursdays as well. When she gets home it's almost as if we have to reprogram her. She is snotty and rude, uses language that we don't use at home, throws fits, is bossy, and all around does not listen. This is not how my daughter behaves regularly, it's like body snatchers. It is becoming increasingly more fruastrating. I spend anywhere from 1-3 days getting her back on track, get to have my well behaved child for a day or two, have to hand her back over to biomom and start all over again. Anyone have any suggestions on how to get this cycle to end?

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